u/Neat_Scallion6367

I volunteer at a not-for profit long-term care facility. Jennifer is one of the staff whose job it is to plan, run and chart activities, also see to it certain residents have interaction with others. Shut-ins are more difficult

People give her donations to use as prizes. candy, trikets, books, stuffed animals, jewelry etc. Sometimes the stuff is ragged and needs to be tossed, they do the same at Goodwill, etc

The jewelry is always cheap beads, necklaces bracelets, etc. perfect for bingo prizes. Yesterday a woman came in and donated a stuffed critter & necklace/ watch set. Jennifer tossed the critter but then dug it out to put in the boss's office as a joke. That's fine

What's not fine, is her saying how the jewelry is super nice, and gave her coworker, Sarah the earrings (who gave then back). WTF? The set is too nice to use as a donation so she keeps it?

I have regularly donated stuff that is passed on to me, by others. None of it is fancy, and it goes to the home instead of Goodwill. Might go into the trash at either facility.

So I'm thinking of telling her the stuff I get passed down is going to the Goodwill, instead of to her since it might just get divvied up by the staff.

So, what should I do? Dish the dirt to others (but not the boss), text her, saying what a shitty thing she did and I'm passing my stuff off to someone else? I really am not good at actual face to face.

She thinks very highly of herself an treats a lot of people as 2nd class. I have never really liked her, but put on a happy face.

Set the damn alarm clock when you want to get up. Not 45 minutes before, so you hit the snooze three times waking everyone else up.

Life enrichment (Activities) employee flat stole a prize donation, and flat chucked another. It's extremely unethical, but I'm not going to rat her out. Do I tell her directly she's unethical, text her, dish some tea with the coworkers?

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