A guy having issues in dating or claiming that women aren’t into him is not a reflection of his moral character at all.
Disclaimer: I am talking about general trends in dating, this obviously doesn’t apply to all men or women.
I’ve seen that often online when a guy expresses disappointment over modern dating in any way he’s met with insults and people him a misogynist or a spiteful incel and that must be the reason he isn’t successful in dating.
Though it’s very clear in personal experience and dating apps statistics that women are far more selective when it comes to choosing partners. This already puts even average dudes at a disadvantage.
Secondly, we can see that clearly evil people such as dictators like Hitler and Stalin were successful in dating, and people with boring or shitty personalities like Clavicular are even more successful.
Furthermore many women seem to have some bad experiences from nearly every ex they’ve had. Even if they’re currently dating someone now, wouldn’t that mean there’s still several bad guys who are successful in dating compared to only one good guy (who may still be bad)?