u/Mysterious-Belt-7365

1. Signed me and my fiance up for a religious event and said she would pay for it and then later came back screaming from the temple that I am sucking her dry and I ended up paying her $2.5K out of my pocket for something I did not even want

2. Went shopping with her for her outfit and she tells the store associate I can’t afford anything too expensive as I’ve put in 100K for my daughter’s wedding. I have actually paid for her outfits and she has not contributed a single penny to anything.

3. My fiance and I also recently bought a home - she proceeded to invite a cousin I do not speak to for multiple reasons one of which being he continues to cheat on his wife to my housewarming that is extremely sentimental given this is the first home anyone in the family has ever bought.

4. My birthday is coming up and she sent a message in my family group chat without even letting me know that I would be celebrating my birthday at this time at a certain restaurant. My wedding is 8 days after my birthday. I did not want to do shit and she feels comfortable making plans on my behalf for my birthday with my in-laws.

5. when trying to coordinate a makeup artist for her and my grandmother and aunt - she is refusing to share or coordinate this with them because she is “overwhelmed” with wedding planning while she has done nothing and works 3 days a week in retail. She proceeded to call me “arrogant” and “eating your aunts shit” because I wanted to be accommodating and wanted to ensure we were on schedule.

This is only on top of the daily abuse of you’re nothing, you’re an idiot, your husband will see your true colors, just because you’re getting married and buying a home is just your luck and you actually possess no skills to achieve those things 😀

I moved in with my mom into an apartment 4 years ago because she was going through a messy divorce with nowhere to stay. The last 4 years have scared me more than my entire childhood - from blaming her divorce on me while I packed up and moved in with her and while I have emotionally and financially supported her is a level of delusion that is beyond me. At this point I am fascinated by what else she will do until the big day. Luckily my last day of living with her is tomorrow.

1. Signed me and my fiance up for a religious event and said she would pay for it and then later came back screaming from the temple that I am sucking her dry and I ended up paying her $2.5K out of my pocket for something I did not even want

2. Went shopping with her for her outfit and she tells the store associate I can’t afford anything too expensive as I’ve put in 100K for my daughter’s wedding. I have actually paid for her outfits and she has not contributed a single penny to anything.

3. My fiance and I also recently bought a home - she proceeded to invite a cousin I do not speak to for multiple reasons one of which being he continues to cheat on his wife to my housewarming that is extremely sentimental given this is the first home anyone in the family has ever bought.

4. My birthday is coming up and she sent a message in my family group chat without even letting me know that I would be celebrating my birthday at this time at a certain restaurant. My wedding is 8 days after my birthday. I did not want to do shit and she feels comfortable making plans on my behalf for my birthday with my in-laws.

5. when trying to coordinate a makeup artist for her and my grandmother and aunt - she is refusing to share or coordinate this with them because she is “overwhelmed” with wedding planning while she has done nothing and works 3 days a week in retail. She proceeded to call me “arrogant” and “eating your aunts shit” because I wanted to be accommodating and wanted to ensure we were on schedule.

This is only on top of the daily abuse of you’re nothing, you’re an idiot, your husband will see your true colors, just because you’re getting married and buying a home is just your luck and you actually possess no skills to achieve those things 😀

I moved in with my mom into an apartment 4 years ago because she was going through a messy divorce with nowhere to stay. The last 4 years have scared me more than my entire childhood - from blaming her divorce on me while I packed up and moved in with her and while I have emotionally and financially supported her is a level of delusion that is beyond me. At this point I am fascinated by what else she will do until the big day. Luckily my last day of living with her is tomorrow.