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If I have two of them. I’m an ISFJ. I am trying to deal with sleep apnea right now and also have depression and anxiety. I’m a black woman and am not planning on having any more than 2 kids my tik tok is misstay783. I have been working on eating protein plates more often, and have been going to a healthy fast food place but give in on occasion and go to McDonald’s. A few people who have been around me a fair amount suspect I’d do a better job of raising a son than a daughter. I was called ugly by a lot of people behind my back in middle school though I also used to criticize people’s appearances, and still admit I’ll occasionally make a comment about a woman’s weight. A few people who have seen pics of my family members have predicted a child of mine will be male if they grow up to be above average in looks. I grew up in an environment wherein I was not around many black people but may move to Oakland or a different city later on in life. My mother actually was considered above average at least facially (though she lost weight after having me her 2nd kid at 33 and gained it again after an incident with a man) until she was in her forties. I do tend to have my hair done and have gotten up to 45 compliments on a box braid style. I also am loving the nails I have right now with a flower design in the middle.

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I’m curious about this. I’m wondering what led to your personal interest in cosmetology.

I’m an ISFJ. I have depression and anxiety which I developed at the age of 9. I have really been into my nails which were painted blue with a flower design recently over the last few days. I have $47k saved. My tiktok is misstay783. My mother seems to have psychosis or late onset schizophrenia, my brother does have it, I have a 3.93 in community college and am working on addressing my sleep apnea (I’m calling the sleep society tomorrow.) Now that I’m in an apartment for the first time I am realizing how poorly my parents prepared me for life. I recently suck out a man who had called me the b word like my mother (who seemed normal when I was a kid.) I didn’t grow up around black people but this doesn’t necessarily mean my child won’t later on as I’d be open to moving to Oakland which i live close by or even a different state wherein I’d have a lot of cousins such as Michigan or Mississippi. People w exception of teen girls sub have guessed that if I become a mother to a child who grows up to be considered above average in looks said child will be male - my mom was actually considered the best looking of the four of us into her mid-forties even after gaining weight (i think a cosmetology major may have worked for her when younger.) 2 ppl who sort of know me voted “boy” when i asked who you think id be better at raising and one seemed disturbed by the fact that I’m just sort of used to older men asking me out and don’t seem to mind an age gap as much as some people would. I have also made comments about other women’s weight before but don’t do so as often these days. I like to have my hair done and nails done now and eyebrows sometimes but I am not good w makeup even though my mother was. I was approached by 4 men within the last few months, I’m a black lady but one was Hispanic and seemed really eager to take me out for coffee, I’d gone back to the 37yr old who had sworn at me and who I knew wanted money from me because I don’t feel awfully good about myself I guess. I tend to change my hair colors when I get braids or bohemian styles done these days and will likely take my kid to the hair salon if we can afford it, I’d want to be married first, I am 21. I actually do want a glow up if possible to stick it to everyone who said or thought I wasn’t worth it. I am almost always a bit stressed.

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I’m an ISFJ. I have depression and anxiety which I developed at the age of 9. I have really been into my nails which were painted blue with a flower design recently over the last few days. I have $47k saved. My tiktok is misstay783. My mother seems to have psychosis or late onset schizophrenia, my brother does have it, I have a 3.93 in community college and am working on addressing my sleep apnea (I’m calling the sleep society tomorrow.) Now that I’m in an apartment for the first time I am realizing how poorly my parents prepared me for life. I recently suck out a man who had called me the b word like my mother (who seemed normal when I was a kid.) I didn’t grow up around black people but this doesn’t necessarily mean my child won’t later on as I’d be open to moving to Oakland which i live close by or even a different state wherein I’d have a lot of cousins such as Michigan or Mississippi. People w exception of teen girls sub have guessed that if I become a mother to a child who grows up to be considered above average in looks said child will be male - my mom was actually considered the best looking of the four of us into her mid-forties even after gaining weight (i think a cosmetology major may have worked for her when younger.) 2 ppl who sort of know me voted “boy” when i asked who you think id be better at raising and one seemed disturbed by the fact that I’m just sort of used to older men asking me out and don’t seem to mind an age gap as much as some people would. I have also made comments about other women’s weight before but don’t do so as often these days. I like to have my hair done and nails done now and eyebrows sometimes but I am not good w makeup even though my mother was. I was approached by 4 men within the last few months, I’m a black lady but one was Hispanic and seemed really eager to take me out for coffee, I’d gone back to the 37yr old who had sworn at me and who I knew wanted money from me because I don’t feel awfully good about myself I guess. I tend to change my hair colors when I get braids or bohemian styles done these days and will likely take my kid to the hair salon if we can afford it, I’d want to be married first, I am 21. I actually do want a glow up if possible to stick it to everyone who said or thought I wasn’t worth it.

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ISFJ. She has recently been dealing with a lot as her mother’s mental health has declined (has a sibling w schizophrenia and her mom may have same her mom and sibling tend to say they want others to die often and her mom has been calling her the b word) her mother had gotten the family kicked out of their old apartment complex. She recently moved in on her own for the first time but, after being asked out by 2 different men who seemed serious about taking her to coffee or a restaurant, reached out to a man who she knows has been arrested 32 times and who had called her the b word (she had initially seemed angry w him and was ignoring him, she knew he’d harmed his former wife) - she acknowledged even though it didn’t work out/even though he admitted to wanting money from her and not wanting anything serious (which she had suspected,) that she had realized she wanted to return to someone toxic, to someone who had the potential to harm her, because of deep rooted self esteem issues related to never feeling true love from a man and a long lost love from her parents, over the men who seemed more serious about her. She acknowledged that the man she was talking to did not write well, was not likely to complete college and was likely too old for her (nearly 20 years her senior.) She has $47k saved and nearly a 4.0 in community college. Her TikTok is misstay783.

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ISFJ. She has recently been dealing with a lot as her mother’s mental health has declined (has a sibling w schizophrenia and her mom may have same her mom and sibling tend to say they want others to die often and her mom has been calling her the b word) her mother had gotten the family kicked out of their old apartment complex. She recently moved in on her own for the first time but, after being asked out by 2 different men who seemed serious about taking her to coffee or a restaurant, reached out to a man who she knows has been arrested 32 times and who had called her the b word (she had initially seemed angry w him and was ignoring him, she knew he’d harmed his former wife) - she acknowledged even though it didn’t work out/even though he admitted to wanting money from her and not wanting anything serious (which she had suspected,) that she had realized she wanted to return to someone toxic, to someone who had the potential to harm her, because of deep rooted self esteem issues related to never feeling true love from a man and a long lost love from her parents, over the men who seemed more serious about her. She acknowledged that the man she was talking to did not write well, was not likely to complete college and was likely too old for her (nearly 20 years her senior.) She has $47k saved and nearly a 4.0 in community college. Her TikTok is misstay783.

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