u/More-Walrus6221

Hello guys first im sorry my english is not the best but i need advice please also this may be a bit long so i grow up with a strict family when i was younger they were so many rules i couldnt go out alone expect only school if i wanted to go out ( which it become possible until high school) i will need to tell my family the whole plan and with who im going out ( obv should be only girls) and my dad will drive me and pick me up so i was very isolated then i just gave up on going out i hated the fact that i need to tell them everything and they need to drive me it was embarassing then one day at the very last month of high school i had a crazy day one teacher was absent so me and a friend went to pass time at the mall that was very close to high school and we had 1 hour free then my dad saw there he became someone else and started yelling at me infront of everyone in the mall and saying you will not go back to school some members of my family calmed him down so i could continue studying

So that night really affected me and shifted something in me i become very introvered i dont even have friends and if some members of my family visits us i will stay in my room

Now im 25 yo im a teacher i just started teaching and i just got my driving licence and yesterday i had a stressful day at work teaching is hard so i broke down in tears then out of nowhere my dad said to me «  why are you like this? You have no personnality no friends you’re always alone and thats why your always sensitive over everything »

I wanted to answer him and tell him thats your fault but i just kept it to myself cuz i know his anger issues and we will start a problem

Now i just want to ask if im overreacting and what can i do to really change myself because this is affecting my whole life i cant even start dating like this

Hello, this is really embarrassing, but I really need advice. This might be a bit long, but I want to include all the details.

I’m a new teacher working in the countryside, in a very remote area. The place is very humid, and the room I’m renting is extremely moldy. I can’t change it because all the places here have mold. I don’t know if that’s relevant, but I wanted to mention it.

About two months ago, I think I had BV (I say “think” because I didn’t see a doctor, I just did my own research). I had a strong fishy smell. During the first week, I took probiotics and the smell went away.

Recently, though, I’ve noticed a different smell—more like bread. When I looked it up, it seemed like it could be a yeast infection. (Side note: I’ve never had sex.) I have good hygiene and know how to clean myself properly. I only use water since I know soap isn’t recommended for that area. So the only possible cause I can think of is the mold.

Today was really hard. As soon as I walked into class, I felt like I could smell it, and my anxiety immediately hit. I feel like the stress makes it worse.

I really want to know what’s causing this and how to treat it. I’ve been living in constant stress, dreading going to work like this. I’ve never felt so depressed or hated myself this much. I literally cry before going to work.

I can’t go to a doctor this month because I’m working every day, and there’s no doctor nearby.