u/Metallica_Enjoyer03

So I (16 M) started attending a new school last year and I hate it. It is supposed to be prestigious and I got a scholarship but the school is full of spoiled brats and bullys. Ever since last year I haven’t been doing well mentally. I am also goth so keep that in mind. So today I had a horrible time at school. I saw a post where my closest friends went out without me ( even though I have been begging to go out together), My team lost on the first round of the yearly football tournament and I didn’t get much sleep last night. After school my brother ( 30 M) and mother ( 55 F) pick me up. I get into the car and they start talking to me about my haircut and it slowly derives into my style. They start berating me to dress better and cut my long curly dark purple hair short and brown. I was already on the verge of tears and I just started yelling. It wasn’t senseless yelling they were starting to make fun of my style a bit and my own family doing this alongside the jerks at school really set me off. Forgot to mention that they made fun off me for fixing/making my own clothes “like a hobo” and boycotting. I have never been this angry before and when we got home I just started crying on my rooms floor. Here’s some of the mean stuff they said in the car: “When you look back you will see how dumb you look”, “You are going to thank us”, “This is exactly why you get bullied”, “We just want to see you without that rats nest on your head” etc. After I was done crying my mother came into my room and told me to lie down and have a talk with her and I refused (because they wouldn’t listen to me no matter what). I just grabbed the last of my cash and went out for a walk . I walked around for hours. When I cam home my brother had sent me a text message. I told him that I was pissed because they refuse to apologize and they refused to listen to me and correct their ways. In the and he wouldn’t listen to me. So AITBF people ?

So I (16 M) started attending a new school last year and I hate it. It is supposed to be prestigious and I got a scholarship but the school is full of spoiled brats and bullys. Ever since last year I haven’t been doing well mentally. I am also goth so keep that in mind. So today I had a horrible time at school. I saw a post where my closest friends went out without me ( even though I have been begging to go out together), My team lost on the first round of the yearly football tournament and I didn’t get much sleep last night. After school my brother ( 30 M) and mother ( 55 F) pick me up. I get into the car and they start talking to me about my haircut and it slowly derives into my style. They start berating me to dress better and cut my long curly dark purple hair short and brown. I was already on the verge of tears and I just started yelling. It wasn’t senseless yelling they were starting to make fun of my style a bit and my own family doing this alongside the jerks at school really set me off. Forgot to mention that they made fun off me for fixing/making my own clothes “like a hobo” and boycotting. I have never been this angry before and when we got home I just started crying on my rooms floor. Here’s some of the mean stuff they said in the car: “When you look back you will see how dumb you look”, “You are going to thank us”, “This is exactly why you get bullied”, “We just want to see you without that rats nest on your head” etc. After I was done crying my mother came into my room and told me to lie down and have a talk with her and I refused (because they wouldn’t listen to me no matter what). I just grabbed the last of my cash and went out for a walk . I walked around for hours. When I cam home my brother had sent me a text message. I told him that I was pissed because they refuse to apologize and they refused to listen to me and correct their ways. In the and he wouldn’t listen to me. So AIO peoples ?

I (16 M) am in the same class as a guy (16 M) who doesn’t care about any boundaries. Here is what happened. Every Thursday we go down to the Maclab to do online work. I like to do my before Thursday so I can spend my time playing games. This guy ( I will be calling him jerk from now on) I mentioned is really popular and sporty but he is not too pleasant to be around if you aren’t his friend. He likes to bring up old favors he did for people when hi doesn’t get his way or he likes to manipulate and sometimes hit them. So I was on my computer playing games and he is sitting behind me (our backs are turned to eachother). He turns around and he asks to play what I’m playing for a round. The game I’m playing is a browser fps and the rounds are long. I don’t feel like it so I tell him no. He asks me again (in a more stern, hostile tone) and I say no again. He gets up from his seat and he puts one hand on the keyboard and one hand on my hand which is on the mouse ( there were people helping eachother out so there were already some people standing) and he calls me a dick. I was in a pissy mood so I tell him no and that he was acting like a predator and that anyone else would have gotten the no and left by now. After hearing that he proceeded to walk back to his seat and slam down on it. We didn’t speak the rest of the class he hit his keyboards keys pretty hard and he glared at me whenever I saw him in the hallways. I feel like I could have been nicer to him and I think comparing him to a predator was a step too far. So AITBF ?

I (16 M) have a bestie (17 M) who for the life of him will not shower. For context he sits in front of me in class and he showers only on sundays (I do not believe him because he smells like hell even on mondays). This had been going on for 2 years. Last week I snapped and I said some pretty nasty things about him and his hygiene (I would not like to elaborate on here because I am truly ashamed of the things I have said). The following day he came to school squeaky clean. He has been showering and brushing his teeth everyday ever since I’ve snapped at him. Even though we are getting along well right now I feel like I should have been kinder to him about his hygiene problem. So AITA