Oh boy. ok I have this coworker I've been really good friends with for a good couple of months now, not quite a year, but yk. Anyway, bro was waiting for me to clock out at closing and walked out with me, asking if I wanted to "hang out" outside of work, and I thought, yeah, I would, I'm friends with this guy. Now does he know I date girls? Yeah, I told him abt my ex one time. But does that mean he knows im a lesbian... Apparently not.
He offered to pay for the hangout, and I was like fuckkkkk nope send me ur bank info, split this 50/50. Unfortunately, that all but confirmed if there was a sliver of a doubt (there wasn't)
It's on... my Insta? Like, bro, I posted Pride Month? I have several posts with pride flags. And what's worse; his friends know who I am. They come up to me, one time, this random guy. He's like, "Are you x, y talks abt you" I was a fool. blind. How could I be deceived like this?
Anyway, the date is this weekend. How do I go about avoiding breaking this man's heart? I wanna be friends with him, talk about Star Wars platonically. I just possess the same interests as him, I guess. I don't know how this happened. I don't think I flirted with him. And imagine how weird it could get at work. I am an idiot, I know. Has anyone accidentally done ts before? makes me question things im certain about