u/Melodic_Total8657

Have you ever dated your darakarka?

My darakarka is 11h Venus in rohini pada 1 and is its combust and with mercury.
I dated a guy with rohini moon when I was younger.
The first day we met he made a statement that his face was perfect. I thought he was joking at first but no...
He had a noble side to him that attracted me to him. He got into a fight because these drunk men were harassing some girls and when he stopped them they threw a brick or rock at his face. Before we went out together he used to cover his "scar" with makeup.. I have no problem with men wearing makeup but the scar was not visible. I had to go up to his face and it looked like an small pock mark above his eyebrow. I guess for him it reminded him of the physical trauma.

I have a bharani moon pada 2 which is my chart ruler so his sense of justice attracted me and willing to put himself at risk for strangers. He had to recover from his as well for a year. If it was not for this story I would of broke up with him.
We were not a good match tho. I thought he was a bit too childish and self-absorbed at times. I can be a bit too serious and intense at times so he actually broke up with me.
I was not upset but disappoint and perhaps this was for the best because my goal was to fix him. He needed to heal on his own.

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u/Melodic_Total8657 — 6 hours ago

How are cancer and now leo risings handling pluto in their 7h?

Any interesting stories?
Im a cancer rising but Im right at the end so much of my 7h is in aquarius. Now pluto is going BACK towards my dsc... STAY AWAY..
I remember when pluto went over my dsc and I felt a shift. it was bad because I also moved to a new city around that time, I was happy because i liked my new place and neighborhood but I felt my new neighbors were weird towards me but now it's a lot better. Im still closed off from new people, I'm feeling extra paranoid and cautious. I'm not dating or even interested in a relationship right now.
I have made new acquaintances that im friendly with but I'm not interested in developing anything deeper with new people. Im just giving all my energy to my day ones.
7h also represents hidden enemies.

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u/Melodic_Total8657 — 4 days ago

What’s your rising sign and what other rising sign do you think is the most attractive?

I’m a cancer rising and I find Capricorn rising to be so attractive. 3 of my exes I found to be the most attractive are Capricorn rising. When i brought them around my friends and family they would complement us together too. I also find Capricorn rising women to be beautiful.
I appreciate how they become even more beautiful even as they age, like a fine wine.

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u/Melodic_Total8657 — 5 days ago

You should not judge people too harshy on their venus sign since it does not represent how you act when you're deeply in love. That's your moon.
Venus and mars indicates their preferences and behavior esp during the courting stage.
Leo dicaprio is the best example of this like he has scorpio venus and mars in a wide conjunction.
He can be intense passionate and persistent when he's interested in a... barely legal woman. probably why his success rate at pulling is good because his partners have certain expectations once he catches feelings his libra moon takes over. Which probably why all his relationships are with models since libra placements are obsessed with beauty.
Ariana grande has taurus venus but she has a libra moon too. When she's in a relationship it seems like shes a lot more detached compared to when she first starts dating someone. taurus venus or scorpio venus does not indicate someone is automatically loyal in love. this is something ive seen thrown around a lot here. Thats cool if you have these placements and are but maybe your moon sign supports this as well.

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u/Melodic_Total8657 — 8 days ago

I have gem Venus too.
I’m single at 34. Never been married or lived with a partner full time. Ive shacked up plenty of times but I always knew it was not going to be a permanent situation.
I’m focused on learning new skills, working on my hobbies/ interests and going on adventures. I never feel that lonely cause I meet people along on my journey.
I have high standards like a Virgo but I’m not going to try to fix people like them . I’ll just move on… honestly it can just be on a whim sometimes. So often times I can come across as a heartbreaker. Esp when I was in my 20s 😭 because that’s when I would date so much. Now I’m more low key.

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u/Melodic_Total8657 — 8 days ago

she has cancer mercury too. love her tho but whew.
I did not get grounded or disciplined growing up TBF her hours long lectures over minor infractions was sufficient punishment. I used to think pls just whoop my ass. I used to take a long nap afterwards.
My leo-virgo dominant dad never piled on cause he felt bad probably LOL

u/Melodic_Total8657 — 11 days ago

I only got two looks… full glamour or all black with sunglasses cause I’m over stimulated/tired/ and don’t want to be perceived.

u/Melodic_Total8657 — 13 days ago

or just scorned by an astrology girlie? I’m always curious about that on here.

Generally I believe if you’re curious or open minded about something you will naturally do research on your own. So I’ve never really tried to put people onto things that are very different from their core interests or beliefs.
I do believe I can convince and change people’s perception on something by being charming and patient. I might remind a friend or family going thru it there’s a mercury retrograde etc that they should be more cautious. Their reaction is usually receptive. I always seem to regret if I don’t say anything cause then they end up in deep shit 😭 Astrology for me is a tool but people can navigate life without it. When people say astrology is dumb I don’t really care... It’s as dumb or useful as you want it to be.
I practice witchcraft, mostly just protection spells. For several years now I almost exclusively attract people who won’t disturb my peace. Now I only look up peoples charts out of curiosity esp if we quickly become really close. which is kinda rare now lol. I’ve gone back to only knowing people’s sun signs.
Most people in my life don’t believe in astrology, tarot reading or anything or occult related. They’re not even spiritual or religious. When people find out they’re actually respectful about it. Im openly into dnd fantasy and scifi so for them it’s just extension of that. People are always like yeah she a little different. I’m a Gemini so don’t come across as normal or conventional in any shape or form.
I did have a coworker that was openly into sun signs and he acted like people do online.
Imagine someone giving you a stank face after you tell them your sign, they straight up call you fake. We were both 29-30 in a corporate setting. I was shocked but I just laughed it off. Yknow I looked up his chart as soon as I got home…
Anyways I have heard of witches who will cast hexes when they’re mad at someone over something petty. I don’t fuck w that energy period. I’d rather deal with a skeptic or none believer every single time!

u/Melodic_Total8657 — 17 days ago