u/MathematicianSad3414

Hello I’m currently struggling to find out if my orientation if you have spare time please let me know because maybe I can relate with some of you

[Male 22]
Guys, I had my first time recently and honestly it didn’t live up to the hype at all. It felt more like a workout than anything. Legit I was going for 30+ minutes didint even finish It was okay, but my expectations were way higher.
Now I’m kinda disappointed and my libido has been gone for a few days after.
Is that normal? Did anyone else feel like this after their first time?