u/Master_Chef092

I don’t really know how to deal with it. Lmk
I changed pretty much every standard i had for her. I still think about her like that, but it’s definitely clear i’m not going to be anything more than a friend.

Seems like i’m so desperate for a girl i’ll do anything i can. Kinda bullshit that this is the first girl I *didnt* like for looks and eventually convinced myself that she’s still good looking. She’s definitely not ugly, but she’s definitely different than what my standard was. I like to think it’s a more positive thing for me, but now it kinda sucks that i changed for her and she still just don’t like me. (She doesn’t know about my changing or anything.)

Plus, now what do I do. She still wants to be friends, but this woman’s just gonna make my life worse if she stays in it, worst part is that it’s literally not her fault at all.

It’s quite literally “sorry you were fine but i got completely carried away cause i’m not mature enough for it and now you don’t have friends again.”

I also really want to tell her all this, since it seems it’s going to end anyway, i just don’t want that messy fallout. I really liked talking to her(it’s been about a month now) but mainly because i saw her as an interest, not as a friend, I don’t wanna keep putting myself through it. She also seems like she has no intention to stop talking to me. She’s talked about how she hates making online or even in person friends who end up just getting tired of her and throwing her away. I told her i wouldn’t do that, but that’s exactly what i’m doing now huh, maybe i just don’t wanna be a hypocrite. She told me she has no friends now, and that’s all she wants. Some friends.

I feel bad, i’m feeding into a very negative woman’s hate for socialising, especially after i hyped her up so much. Is it just me? Should i try to mature? Or should i just throw it away and get on with my life normally.

TLDR: Changed my standards, still got friendzoned, don’t know what to do. Lmk.

I know someone who’s really struggling to get over a person. I want to help but since i’ve never really had that kind of pain, i don’t know what to tell her? Any advice?

I’m 18M. I’ve decided to give this femboy thing a whirl, but i’m not really sure how to get it done. I know most femboys are pretty bald skinned. I, however, am very naturally hairy (50% mexican), and even worse, i have pretty light skin (50%) white. I want to do this thing, but not only am I kinda going in somewhat blind, idk how to get all this hair off. I’m sure normal razors will work for my legs, but more “awkward” places are difficult. Plus, do I have to shave my arms? tf kinda razor i use for that.
Plus, i’ve got roommates, we all share one bathroom/shower. I’m trying not to make this difficult, nor let them know what i’m doing.
Any help?

Says the girl who’s clearly not going to date me.

Just kinda don’t know what to do at this point, cause i seem to catch feelings for just about any woman that shows any care for me.