Okay, to set the scene, I'm 14 and still live with my parents (obviously), and my depressed, obese grandma moved in with my family because she just couldn't live alone or something idk.
When my grandma first moved in, it was honestly kinda fun. We would hang out a lot and play games. But I started noticing her making weird comments, and she honestly makes me feel really uncomfortable sometimes. I used to be a fat kid (I've lost 30lbs since then), and my grandma and I were out getting smoothies, and she pointed to a skinny girl, and genuinely said to me, "Don't you wish you looked like her?" Mind you, I was like TEN when she said this to me. She always comments on my body, and sometimes will slap/touch my butt, which makes me really uncomfortable.
My grandma is also VERY manipulative; she will do anything to make me and my family feel bad over the dumbest things. My dad fights with her a lot, and it usually ends with my grandma crying and saying something like "Nobody likes me." She always tries to make me feel bad for everything, and I'm so tired of her. I wish she would just move out.
I don't know what to do about this. I just try to ignore her most of the time. Also, she has lots of stomach issues and has thrown up DURING dinner. I have a huge fear of people throwing up, so I avoid being around her at all, even during meals.