u/MannerOutrageous779

I'm getting in to a private uni this month. In Management information system side. My relatives being telling me not to do it because all the kids they know, who did privet uni degrees are now unemployed. I'm getting second thoughts about this now. I hope someone can help me, please.

I know i can't be 100% certain about this, but I'm gonna do what I feel the pull towards to. But all this noise, about people being unemployed is messing with my head. Is it true?

We met a week ago and he’s genuinely a good person. The problem is, the more we talked, the more I realized I don’t feel a romantic connection with him. I tried to, but it just feels forced on my side.

He’s already very attached and keeps saying he’ll do anything to make it work, which makes me feel guilty for wanting to end things this early. But staying when my feelings aren’t there also feels unfair to both of us.

I don’t know if I’m making a mistake by leaving someone “perfect on paper,” or if I should trust the fact that my heart just isn’t in it.

TL;DR: He’s a great guy, but I don’t feel the romantic connection and feel guilty about wanting to end things because he’s already attached.

He says hell cancel his plans on going abroad. And I don't know how to explain this to him, I feel really bad