u/LowerDepartment6400

Excess paise hain, bet laga hi leta hu🥰
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I’m a 16-year-old Kashyap Brahmin currently studying in 12th grade. My Upanayan (Janeu ceremony) has been getting postponed for years — not because of any superstition or “curse,” but simply because my family stays extremely busy and rarely gets time to plan it properly, even though they continue performing other pujas regularly.

For now, I’ve been waiting patiently. My suitable lagan period is valid until June 2027. Since I’m in 12th grade and am simultaneously preparing for JEE Advanced as well, it most likely won’t be possible to conduct the ceremony this year either.

What worries me is that I don’t want my Janeu ceremony to happen just before my wedding in the future. I genuinely want my Janeu-dharan to take place by July 2027, before I leave for college.

I'm being brutally harassed by mother both physically and mentally for months now and this isn't something that a teen should face. Yesternight, I accidentally spit a regional lingual slang and then, I got physically abused! She came to me, punched me on the faced thrice; the left side of my face swole up. My lips were bleeding, my lil toe got a major cut and it was bleeding since then for around half an hour. She threw a sharp knife on me which I barely escaped.

Not just the physical abuse, she still mocks me over things, not in a caring way, but as something that is used to deceive and torture the terrorists hovering over the country

My dad too, is involved in pressurizing me 24x7 for my studies, even though he himself knows that my avg study hours is <12 hours a day right now. They poke me even saying that they pay for my food; I tried and I too earned ~4.5k in 2 months for my expenditure but still, I don't even have my own teen bank account to keep it in and am 16 right now. I barely use whatsapp and still get taunted upon using it (even though I check out Whatsapp for less than a minute or two)

I use whatsapp through my mom's phone cause neither do I have any sim card with me, nor do I get a single penny to atleast save and get myself a phone.

Neither do I get any privacy, nor do they respect my efforts. Am hella tired of this. None of my close friends could help me out since they too are helpless so even if I know, nobody would dare to speak up. This is the exact reason why I failed to score good and study in 11th grade and is happening to me in 12th too.

I had been in a three-months interfaith relationship with a girl 3 years back, which my mother came to know about and got us apart (yeahhh I got physically bruised then too, was mentally tortured for months and months for it) My mother still thinks that am involved with girls until this day! Since the past 3 years, I haven't been into relationships with anyone, but still I get these taunts on daily basis. It is physically painful and mentally traumatizing for me to even listening to these things now. My body is currently on edge even when nothing is happening. My head's been aching for a year now and all these pain is just getting worse day by day.

I've decided not to stay in contact with my parents after I join a college in June 2027. Handfully, would only contact my dad for the mammoth monetary needs such as my fees and all; it isn't even like my dad's financially weak. He's financially sound af, still I would prefer to get internships or at least freelancing (I've my sources) and would handle myself by my own.

Talking about the title, am not going to talk to my mom anymore (neither does she care about this being a problem in between us).

ALL THESE DECISIONS ARE MADE BY ME IN ALL MY SENSES, AND HAS BEEN RUNNING IN MY MIND FOR YEARS NOW, YEARSSSS SINCE I AM GETTING ABUSED ON DAILY BASIS.

I'm being brutally harassed by mother both physically and mentally and this isn't something that a teen should face. Yesternight, I accidentally spit a regional lingual slang and then, I got physically abused! She came to me, punched me on the faced thrice; the left side of my face swole up. My lips were bleeding, my lil toe got a major cut and it was bleeding since then for around half an hour. Not just the physical abuse, she still mocks me over things, not in a caring way, but as something that is used to decieve and torture your enemies.

My dad too, is involved in pressurizing me 24x7 for my studies. They poke me even that they pay for my food; I tried and I too earned ~4.5k in 2 months for my expenditure but still, I don't even have my own teen bank account and am 16 right now. I barely use whatsapp and still get taunted upon using it (even though its for less than a minute or two)

I use whatsapp through my mom's phone cause neither do I have any sim card with me, nor do I get a single penny on monthly basis to atleast save and get myself a sim or a phone.

Neither do I get any privacy, nor do they respect my efforts. Am hella tired of this. None of my close friends could help me out since they too are helpless so even if I know, nobody would dare to speak up. This is the exact reason why I failed to score good and study in 11th grade and is happening to me in 12th too.

I had been in a three-months interfaith relationship with a girl 3 years back, which my mother came to know about and got us apart (yeahhh I got physically bruised then too, was mentally tortured for months and months for it) My mother still thinks that am involved with girls until this day! Since the past 3 years, I haven't been into relationships with anyone, but still I get these taunts on daily basis. It is physically painful and mentally traumatizing for me to even listening to these things now. My body is currently on edge even when nothing is happening. My head's been aching for a year now and all these pain is just getting worse day by day.

I've decided not to stay in contact with my parents after I join a college in June 2027. Handfully, would only contact my dad for the mammoth monetary needs such as my fees and all; it isn't even like my dad's financially weak. He's financially sound af, still I would prefer to get internships or at least freelancing (I've my sources) and would handle myself by my own.

Talking about the title, am not going to talk to my mom anymore (neither does she care about this being a problem in between us).

ALL THESE DECISIONS ARE MADE BY ME IN ALL MY SENSES, AND HAS BEEN RUNNING IN MY MIND FOR YEARS NOW, YEARSSSS SINCE I AM GETTING ABUSED ON DAILY BASIS.

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Guyssss mera pervert beta saw and talked to a girl aaj🙈

(He believes ke ye wo dono hain)

So mera pervert beta met this girl U-U--I (Bengali) at his vit center TCS Gito Bitan Salt Lake

They were at 5th floor , Lab 3B , C200 and C201

She was sitting at his left side...

My son was really tensed at the beginning coz he had never sat beside a girl in mains and all ...

She initiated the convo and damm thanks to her my son was relieved within a moment ... She was fair skinned , short , wore specs , fluent in English , calm and cool ...

They talked about future exams , plans , counselling process , and branch to choose... Bro literally my son never had such interaction with any female (you will know ahead)

* IMPORTANT POINT *

She asked him about counselling and all .. My son did explain her a bit about josaa and csab...

And then my son did recommend her to join Jeeneetards on reddit as it would be easier to get guidance here ...

Her intro :

• Name - U-U--I

• Fair looking short height

• Icse board 12thie

• probably from Dankuni / Bankura (less chance)

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So basically their exams started 30min late and fuck it idc about it bruh

She didn't revise chem at all and mera mc ladka didn't revise maths at all...

And here we go .. exam begins and all ..

I did finish my paper before 12 mins of completion as I couldn't do no more questions coz i was exhausted due to travelling...but I sat there to let her finish till the end (as we could leave after early submission)

And then her exams over and all but then mera bkl ladka started my worst move

He started to ignore her after the submission as mera bhen ka lund beta didn't wanna look like a pervert to her...

Although she tried to ask about about how was the exam and all but he kept ignoring (my legs were paining)

After leaving out of lab we were together mostly... She went to washroom.. Yea he was moving ahead but went back to washroom too ... Bruh after that we were separated..

But soon after that she came from behind... he saw her.. but didn't stop to talk .. These creep was, they were walking together mostly but still i didn't talk or look at her ..

They walked from 5th floor to ground floor..

There was a separate exit for male and female and hence we were separated... I tried to stop her and ask for some sort of contact but yeah I didn't want to make myself look like a pervert

I think i should've talked to her / asked for her contact or something coz i think she tried to communicate too but I couldn't take it at all

After that i exit from boys gate .. and walking a few steps I saw her with her father again... I tried to wave bye .. but she ignored me this time (probably coz she was with her father) ... Bruh at that moment i felt like a clown on the street... Nah I don't blame her ..

So,mere pervert ladke stay away from her...

All the best beta for ugee and wbjee and pls dont accept my son's request

I hope your aspirations come true . All the Best for what lies ahead 😄

Yupppp I know am the one who was supporting these su!c!dal and was praised for being brother of hundreds supporting thousands of people yet, here I am! Dont wanna continue my life anymore. Haan bahot hi tagdi tagdi kitaabein hain, time hai but bhenchod hoga toh hoga kaise. And for this, am no more going continue this journey!

Haan bhai, this examination eats you and isn't suitable either! DMs open, wish me aakhri baar lol. Life khatam bhai, kuch kaam nahi aaya ye sab "Life isn't over, JEE isn't everything" wale posts se! koi dropper batch dilwa deta toh nahi bhi krta lol anyways meri zindagi yahin samapt hoti hai, won't go further...

Regards,
LowerDepartment6400 🗿

Edit: LAAND BAHINCHOD JAAN DUNGA ISS EXAM KE LIYE,
1 MUTTHI MEIN MAANSIK SANTULAN SAHI HOJATA HAI (MOTIVATION MIL GYI LOL)

AB TOH ADVANCED HI FODNA HAI🙈😋