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rumours spread fast this week and she’s now ranting in the gc saying she never said it and said a guy’s nickname that our teacher calls him but that it was misheard (“Nickeroo” for Nick). Under this instance I believe she’s telling the truth, but in general I dont. She’s been calling this guy Nicky with G’s instead of the “ck” and often has done a lot to borderline say it. I’m fairly certain I overheard her say the full thing once a couple years ago. I’ve always had issues with her doing this stuff but honestly never really did anything about it beyond telling her not do to that a couple times. That’s my bad.

Her, our other friend (let’s call her “Anna”) and I have plans to get ready for prom + sleep over after next week. But ANOTHER close friend (“Olivia”) took me aside today to tell me the rumours and that she just wanted to let me know so i don’t mistakenly hang out with that girl and associate myself with someone who says the N word.

This puts me in a pickle. This situation made me realize how dumb I’ve been for not taking more serious action, and that i’m part of the problem for “letting“ her continue. I really want to confront and distance myself from the girl until she realizes that none of this is funny and she’s being blatantly rude, disrespectful, and even worse for denying it all, but I know Anna would never do anything that doesn’t prioritize group peace and comfort, even though she equally agrees with me.

Also prom; the plans were made at the OG girl’s house and we are unable to do it anywhere else. I also feel like considering i’ve told this girl a couple times to stop saying it and she’s continued, it’s really beyond me at this point and if I confront her I ruin our friendship of like a dozen years.

Do I want to be friends with a racist person? Absolutely not.

Do I wish she could stop being so fucking dumb? Absolutely.

Do I think she will stop? Probably not soon. Especially with the borderline jokes and nicknames

Will I be outcast from this friendgroup for taking things “too seriously”, especially if she’s been denying these allegations and ofc no one wants to go against their friends?? Yes. Highly likely.

Are they good friends? Absolutely. In general: Amazing, supportive, kind, inclusive people, I really honestly do not want to give up. But this bad habit has got to stop.

I hope this made sense i really don’t know what to do :(

Just curious. i’ve been learning Forkner and it’s fun, but I’m not super natural at cursive so that’s already a little big of a learning curve. but with some others i briefly tried out before choosing forkner, i realized it was optimized for right handed people. I’ve even started practicing forkner with my right hand.

This post feels all over the place, but overall, i’d like input on what would feel the smoothest while writing left handed!

Thanks

TLDR: my twin (M) + I (F) have the same type, I’m kind of crushing on his crush (F)?? Or am i

i just think it’s so funny. I’m a teen girl with a twin brother. we never really talked about crushes or anything personal as we grew up.

Only recently have we gotten closer and i found out he liked a girl. Super surprising to me since my entire life he’s never hinted at being interested in anyone (baffling to me and the 30494 boys i’ve secretly liked). So ive always been curious about the type of person he’d like and whether or not we’d like the same things.

long story short I somehow have recently (accidentally) become friends-ish with his crush, and she’s exactly the kind of people I’ve crushed on in the past (visually+personality), just a girl. This is absolutely hilarious to me but i’m scared to bring it up with my twin. Doesn’t really matter tho.

It’s kind of crazy. like i’ve known this girl for years at my school but forgot about her too. She’s totally different from when i first met her years ago. And idk if it’s a twin competitive thing but she’s so attractive to me. and im lowkey proud of my twin bro bc he doesn’t have shit teenage boy taste. this woman is smart, athletic, funny, and very pretty. she has this rare shyness and awkwardness about her that isn’t performative or over the top. very alluring. but is it js bc I know my brother likes her and i’m nosy as fuck???

Kind of a rant because I had a dream last night where she told me she was Bisexual among other things. We’re not even close enough to be friends yet. but i’m subconsciously hoping she’s into me i guess. I hate this?

I feel kind of guilty because she’s my twin’s crush. and it’s not like i’m fully crushing on her— i really do think half of it is my competitiveness trying to prove to her that im the better twin, mixed with me being so curious for years about who his type would be, mixed with the fact that she seems like quite literally the girl version of my type.

But at the same time, i can objectively see that I dont like her that way (yet ?). im just so fascinated and curious by her and this whole thing that it feels like a crush. Im just so impressed by her and think she’s so cool. but there are a few things about her that I dislike in a romantic-interest way.

so im highkey jealous of my brother bc wtf i feel like i’m weird for wanting to be her friend AFTER finding out he likes her, and honestly i never would have noticed or cared enough to try befriending her if i hadn’t known he liked her (my original goal was to subtly wingman). but in the slight chance that i do end up crushing on her, what? what then? boyyyyyyy.

Very weird experience.

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