My Fiancè and I booked our wedding at a beach resort originally for January but due to having our daughter (surprise baby) we moved it back December.
We weren’t supposed to be allowed to move the wedding, but the coordinator was very understanding. The only downfall was the only date left at this venue (which we are already paid for) was the first saturday of December. We sent our our save the dates and….. his sister sent me a passive aggressive text when she received it that that happened to be her 4 year old daughters birthday. I was shocked to hear this as every other year we have celebrated the childs birthday on a different date so when we said yes to this date in December we did not think twice.
She told me i need to move the wedding (which i told her was absolutely not possible) and she other family members im crazy and rude for doing such a thing. Mind you this wedding is 9 months away and shes already planned her daughters birthday party for that day and was basically telling other family memebers if they truly care about her daughter they would not be missing her birthday party which in turns makes family feel pressured to attend both in the same day.
All the other family thinks shes absolutely delusional (which she is).
TL;DR Now what i wonder is this… i know its her daughters birthday but the way she called me and the things she has said really hurt. I have refused to go to any family events because i dont want to deal with her and her nonsense. My fiance thinks i should just suck it up and play fake but i really dont know how to be around someone like that. I dont know how to go about handling it. Im so upset and hurt that someone i treated like a sister would turn around and be so nasty all over a 4 year olds birthday party?