u/Loose_Net6326

hi i’m 25F and my little sister is 19F

This happened around a month ago where she said she had to go to another country for 2 weeks for a study program. With my parents being naive they allowed her and even gave her 400 to ‘support’ her. However they were unaware she went on holiday and used the money to go sustain her trip😭. She was only caught when she forgot to remove my little sister (18F) off her close friends story on instagram and was seen in some sort of party setting/club with multiple friends , i’m not too sure on how she worded it. My little sister who was unaware she was supposed to go to be at a program, brought it up to our parents and 2 brothers (22M and 26M). They were obviously shocked and began to spam call her and lied saying my father was hospitalised as he has a condition. Obviously she came back frantic and instead of her meeting at the hospital we met at home. Then my father and mother were screaming at her and my brothers began to look through her phone. There they found videos of her partying,boat trips,guys and videos of her clearly intoxicated. Now basically everything of hers has been taken and she has been removed out of university permanently. My father is planning to send her back home and take her passport back with him so she is unable to leave. Due to this i’m unsure of what to do and say as my sister is no longer speaking to everyone and has stopped eating. Her flight is in two days and idk what to do to help her, as i understand what she did was wrong but i can’t stand to see her whole life change and my family is refusing to budge specifically my father. He thinks she has betrayed his trust and reputation, but I am trying to reason with him to not go through with the decision.

Any advice please?

hi i’m 25F and my little sister is 19F

This happened around a month ago where she said she had to go to another country for 2 weeks for a study program. With my parents being naive they allowed her and even gave her 400 to ‘support’ her. However they were unaware she went on holiday and used the money to go sustain her trip😭. She was only caught when she forgot to remove my little sister (18F) off her close friends story on instagram and was seen in some sort of party setting/club with multiple friends , i’m not too sure on how she worded it. My little sister who was unaware she was supposed to go to be at a program, brought it up to our parents and 2 brothers (22M and 26M). They were obviously shocked and began to spam call her and lied saying my father was hospitalised as he has a condition. Obviously she came back frantic and instead of her meeting at the hospital we met at home. Then my father and mother were screaming at her and my brothers began to look through her phone. There they found videos of her partying,boat trips,guys and videos of her clearly intoxicated. Now basically everything of hers has been taken and she has been removed out of university permanently. My father is planning to send her back home and take her passport back with him so she is unable to leave. Due to this i’m unsure of what to do and say as my sister is no longer speaking to everyone and has stopped eating. Her flight is in two days and idk what to do to help her, as i understand what she did was wrong but i can’t stand to see her whole life change and my family is refusing to budge specifically my father. He thinks she has betrayed his trust and reputation, but I am trying to reason with him to not go through with the decision.

Any advice please?

i’m 25F) and idk his age but he’s 26-35

I’ve been at this job for a year and a half and I only know a couple people there bc i’m somewhat introverted and don’t really interact with anyone. However this coworker and I work in the same building and we’ve been on this project since December, I would always see him second glance me or just watch what i’m doing but refuse to even acknowledge me? But recently while doing the project I decided to make conversation with the group he was in and when i spoke he physically placed his lips together in cringe/smile and i saw him turn a bit red and didn’t say anything? but when the others would speak he would talk normally and laugh with them?

I’ve never really thought of him but this was just bothering me.