AIO for trying to therapy for my daughter's but my ex won't sign the parent consent form
Good day everyone okay so some history before the question.
my ex and I are currently going through a divorce we've been separated now 2 years and she's dragging out getting the divorce finalized.
we have 4 kids together two boys aged 20 and 18 and 2 girls ages 13 and 7. she also has a child from a previous relationship whos 26.
there is no custody agreement in place However that is being worked on because of what had happened.
in January my 7 year old daughter had disclosed to me that during Christmas and once again in the new year she was sexually assaulted by her 26 year old step brother.. I'm not going to share the details. the assault took place while in the care of their mother
after the disclosure was given it was reported to the local Police (RCMP).. police have investigated the girls have given states as the step brother had also previously sexually assaulted the 13 year old when she was younger.
during the investigation the girls remained in my care full time and could not visit with their mother at her residence as the step brother would still visit her.
the step brother was charged with multiple charges 6 in total. however he was released because he didn't have any previous charges and when he was released he was given conditions that he can visit or see the girls, attend their schools, their mothers place and my residence.
because these conditions were put into place the RCMP have said the threat has been removed and that the girls would be free to returning to visit their mom at her residence.
during this whole process I've been fighting for the girls, I had taken a leave of absence from work, working with vicitm services and other resources I've been trying to get them into Counciling However with this service and its one where they specialize in victims of sexual assault. they ask for both parents to sign the consent forms so the girls can get treatment.
my ex is refusing to sign the consent forms and has told me she doesn't believe that it ever happened and that the girls lying about..
so Am I over reacting for feeling frustrated that she's not thinking about what's best for the girls and getting them help.