I’ve been thinking about trying international dating for a while, but safety is probably the main thing holding me back. There are so many stories about fake profiles, people pretending to want something serious, or conversations that feel genuine at first and then slowly turn sketchy.
For people here who met someone long-distance or internationally through a dating app or site, how did you figure out whether the person was actually genuine?
Are there specific red flags you watched for early on, like avoiding video calls, moving too fast emotionally, asking to switch platforms quickly, vague answers, inconsistent details, or money-related hints?
Also, how much do you trust things like profile verification or support review on smaller international platforms? Does that actually help, or do you still mostly rely on your own judgment?
Does that uncertainty ever really go away once you’ve talked to someone for a while, or is it just part of long-distance/international dating? I’m open to putting in the effort, but I’d like to understand what’s realistic before getting too invested.