u/LikanW_Cup

You can find me absolutely “cringe” here but I decided to post it. We all need to start from something, I decided to give it a try. I’m 21 year old non-binary person but born as a female. My voice is deep, I will describe it like this. I have some problems with “R” pronouncing, it’s a total hell since I was a kid.

I don’t have experience at all but I decided to try to see what I can start with and improve.

I want to know the start of it, how it’s start to forms and then how it slowly becoming total C-PTSD which requires proper treatment to have a calm life

I’m going to graduate soon but I think I need to learn more law stuff, I’m graduating from college but going to go to university. I feel like I still struggle and struggle a lot, I would like to take buddy who could help me and I will help them back to study.

I know that law depends on each country but even practicing general one could be helpful.

My partner is from China, 29 year old. I never met any of my partners in real life, it was only LDR. I never dated anyone from my country too in real life. I’m from Russia, I’m myself non-binary (but was born as female), going to be 21. One thing I’m asking is don’t say anything about ages, I don’t need to hear anything about it.

Maybe I should learn her language better or there is something else? I’m just nervous since she will come in the next month and I feel so stupid. And probably we will have something more than just dating and I’m new for it too. Any advice?

I’m going to be 21 year old soon, im already working at myself but I want to get buddy who would be up for discipline, motivation at any weather. I need someone strict with me and also serious.

My goals exactly is:

Taking care of health better, studying, learn how to communicate better, create better content, open my own business, learn more about finances, language, how to improve relationships, work out, trying something new, how to be a good mentor/couch by myself, better lawyer and writer. Basically everything at once.

I’m a person who is straightforward, kind and also wants not just typical “oh hey, keep going”, but who loves everything rough, to try things under any weather, circumstances. I would like to get a buddy who could understand me and also achieve goals with me without any “we can’t do it” and without any pressure, who is not going to procrastinate and we actually will help each other and to put our progress somewhere. Help me = I will help you, I help you = you help me, no ghosting, no pressure, only honesty and no weird dms.

I can answer on questions or give some advices. I was in my lowest point of life, never believed in myself, dated someone who used me, I was spending time in video games for 15 hours at the day. Didnt took care of myself at all, drank soda a lot, slept all days. I procrastinated more than lived, I was afraid of failing, lived with -11 eyesight, was bullied

Now I have better relationships, i broke up with my ex, I try to make my own content, I almost got college degree, I try to invest, I worked for the first time, I changed my middle name, found better friends, make content with my cat, trying to take care of my health, living in my head a bit but better, doing trauma work.

Everything can be achieved.

I myself was here for years. Don’t call yourself bad names and don’t trust procrastination. It’s not your friend. Don’t wait for the rigjt moments fail but try against procrastination will make your life never ending stressed hell. I believe in you all here. If someone need some advices - let me know. It can be dealt with, it’s you who is stronger, not your fear.

You keep saying that you will do it later, tomorrow, when you are ready and it never happens. You lose your hours of life and you still live with stress. “In Monday it will get better, in Tuesday, I need to wait for the right step”. There is no right time or step, we have only NOW.

“What if I will fail? Better do it later. I have a lot of time”.

Please, never ever sit with it. You can escape from it. Procrastination is not your friend.

Any book. Better to have audio books but still. Recommend me anything :)

Hello, I’m a native Russian speaker, non-binary, 21 year old almost. I was born and live in Russia. I want to learn Greek (know only 2-3 basic words) and Chinese (full beginner), so I would link to help a person who can help me with Greek or Chinese or both — I don’t mind. In exchange, I can help with Russian.

If someone is interested — my DM’s is open