u/Leading-Sandwich9973

▲ 13 r/lansing

Local lolcow or business man?

Has anyone heard of Elias Ferreya? Is he really a scammer? How are all these Lansing business (including law firms) giving this dude business if so?? I’m so baffled.

EDIT: I found out he was running a family friends business page! I commented and messaged them a warning but they were deleted and I’m blocked now.

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u/Leading-Sandwich9973 — 14 hours ago
▲ 1 r/family

I am unsure if I should invite my dads side of the family (excluding my dad ofc).

Context: I am a gay woman and have been in a relationship 3.5 years + live together. My mom’s side of the family adore her, but my dads have never met her. This is to “not upset my grandparents”. Recently a few members have asked about her, but refer to her as my roommate (ouch). Not sure if this is their way of asking about her without upsetting my grandparents, or if they genuinely see her as that.

My other 3 cousins have invited me to baby showers/weddins/etc which I have attended. I don’t really attend Christmas (due to said relationship) anymore and come around less. It is always really nice seeing them and visiting with everybody, but it’s a side of my life I don’t really share with them. I think everyone but my grandparents know.

Obviously they would see pictures of the wedding online and I don’t want to hurt feelings. The concept of all this makes me want to have a micro wedding (we already want to invite ~75 max people right now). Thoughts??

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u/Leading-Sandwich9973 — 7 days ago

I am unsure if I should invite my dads side of the family (excluding my dad ofc).

Context: I am a gay woman and have been in a relationship 3.5 years + live together. My mom’s side of the family adore her, but my dads have never met her. This is to “not upset my grandparents”. Recently a few members have asked about her, but refer to her as my roommate (ouch). Not sure if this is their way of asking about her without upsetting my grandparents, or if they genuinely see her as that.

My other 3 cousins have invited me to baby showers/weddins/etc which I have attended. I don’t really attend Christmas (due to said relationship) anymore and come around less. It is always really nice seeing them and visiting with everybody, but it’s a side of my life I don’t really share with them. I think everyone but my grandparents know.

Obviously they would see pictures of the wedding online and I don’t want to hurt feelings. The concept of all this makes me want to have a micro wedding (we already want to invite ~75 max people right now). Thoughts??

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u/Leading-Sandwich9973 — 7 days ago