u/LeadershipAny9752

Last weekend we finally got to see each other in person again after 3 weeks of starting long distance. I’m aware that during those three weeks I had doubts and felt uncertain. He told me he didn’t like long distance because he felt like he couldn’t give me the 100% he wanted to while being apart, and that he had fears and felt like maybe the best thing was to end it. I’m aware that was a reflection.

During those three weeks before meeting again I kept trying to come back to my center and remind myself that I am chosen and enough, and I would go back to my self-concept affirmations whenever I catch me doubting. But now I’m wondering if maybe I didn’t do it “right” since that negative reflection still showed up, and how I can improve it now.

My biggest question is: how did you get used to it and stay firm during the long distance period or during doubts? What did you do to make it feel natural and become part of you without overthinking it so much? I come from a background where I never really felt chosen, and that’s something I’ve decided to stop accepting as my reality, but I feel like I still haven’t fully mastered it yet.

I’m aware I need to change my mindset and resist for coming back to my old me but sometimes those intrusive thoughts come out of nowhere, I try to change them and say things like “ok thanks for trying to protect me but I don’t have nothing to be scared from, it’s safe to feel love, choose and stable” that have help me to stop the moment anxiety but not the intrusive thoughts of coming time to time

Last weekend we finally got to see each other in person again after 3 weeks of starting long distance. I’m aware that during those three weeks I had doubts and felt uncertain. He told me he didn’t like long distance because he felt like he couldn’t give me the 100% he wanted to while being apart, and that he had fears and felt like maybe the best thing was to end it. I’m aware that was a reflection.

During those three weeks before meeting again I kept trying to come back to my center and remind myself that I am chosen and enough, and I would go back to my self-concept affirmations whenever I catch me doubting. But now I’m wondering if maybe I didn’t do it “right” since that negative reflection still showed up, and how I can improve it now.

My biggest question is: how did you get used to it and stay firm during the long distance period or during doubts? What did you do to make it feel natural and become part of you without overthinking it so much? Or if the intrusive thoughts actually stop coming eventually? I come from a background where I never really felt chosen, and that’s something I’ve decided to stop accepting as my reality, but I feel like I still haven’t fully mastered it yet.

I’m aware I need to change my mindset and resist for coming back to my old me but sometimes those intrusive thoughts come out of nowhere, I try to change them and say things like “ok thanks for trying to protect me but I don’t have nothing to be scared from, it’s safe to feel love, choose and stable” that have help me to stop the moment anxiety but not the intrusive thoughts of coming time to time

I need some guidance on staying in the "State of the Wish Fulfilled" while dealing with anxiety in my 3D reality.

I’ve been manifesting a stable, healthy relationship with an incredible partner. He is everything I’ve ever wanted: attentive, respectful, and he truly admires me. However, we are currently long-distance (Mexico/USA). During a recent call, he expressed that due to the uncertainty of the distance, he thinks it might be "healthier" to take a step back and stop being exclusive after our upcoming trip in two weeks.

I feel like my old fears of abandonment are manifesting through his words. I want a future with him, and while I’m interested in moving to his city (NYC) for my own professional growth, idk if im ready to do it right now, (specially cuz even I leave alone I’m trying to keep as close as I can to my grandpas, since I’m the closest person to them and don’t want to leave them behind or my dog, I know it can sound childish but I would feel guilty if something happens and I’m not there for them)

I want to manifest a reality where we stay committed and happy without me having to make a painful sacrifice or "give up everything" to be with him. I want the solution to unfold naturally and perfectly for both of us.

I do affirmations that have help me, meditation and even a song to keep me chill (I’m a musician)

I think we both make an amazing team and help each other in healing and growing and again he’s everything I manifested before.

How can I make this better? Is it actually possible? How can I stop this intrusive thoughts about that everything it’s going to end? Or how I stop them to show in my reality?

How can I improve my self-concept so I stop feeling like I have to "sacrifice my life" to be worthy of his love?

How do I stop reacting to his words about "taking a step back" and remain firm in the assumption that we are already a committed, end-game couple?

I’ve been feeling a lot of anxiety and spiraling into "what if" scenarios. How do I return to a state of peace and conviction when the 3D feels so loud?

Sorry as you can read I’m anxious rn and need some motivation