It’s really hard to date as someone who is open to a nested relationship again—because everyone is already in nested partnerships
My long-time partner of almost 7 years, with whom I was in a nesting partnership for the last 2 years of our relationship, and I split last summer. I have a partner of a year and a half and I am very happy with her, but she is in a nested relationship with her long-time partner. I am open to all kinds of connections, but I hope to eventually have a nested relationship again as I really value sharing space and having the day-to-day in-person connection of a nested relationship. Everyone I meet is already in a nested relationship or else they are solo poly.
Like I said, I am open to all kinds of connections in general, but this is one kind of connection I would like to have again. And I have not seen a soul on apps saying they are open to this. Except me. Maybe it’s where I live? Is it like this most places?