u/Lazy_Zone_2064

I’m in high school and I was in a school trip 2 months ago, there was this guy that I liked( we gon call him Abel) but wasn’t sure, during the trip we were kinda getting closer so after I added him on snap we talked and 1 week after a guy in my class ( we gon call him Mac) added me too, I was confused and he basically told me he was interested so I gave him a chance bcs why not.

The problems start when Mac goes out with his friends and he tells me after that when he was only with Abel he started talking about me. I started stressing bcs I was scared that he might tell him a talk to him. Abel was basically flexing the fact that I send him pictures of my face and all that, but Mac was confused bcs they’re supposed to be friends. Bcs I follow the two of them on insta so it’s means that Abel was looking trough my profile and found out me and Mac are following each other( Mac doesn’t follow any girl).

Afterwards I stopped talking to Abel and talked with Mac only for less than a month at first I liked him he even bought me flowers, but with time I started getting the ick like I don’t wanna talk to him, I felt bad bcs he is really into me and lovebombing me too much. I was still thinking about Abel so I just told Mac that we should stop talking for now bcs it’s not working. After I started talking to Abel again and told him that I didn’t like the fact that he was flexing in front of his friends about me, he said that he was sorry and never wanted to hurt me but when we talk I just feel like he is not trying hard enough like Mac was.

Currently I’m not talking with any of them, I feel like I miss the attention Mac was giving me but idk if I prefer the excitement I get when Abel is texting me. Should I text one of them back?

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u/Lazy_Zone_2064 — 12 days ago

I’m in high school and I was in a school trip 2 months ago, there was this guy that I liked( we gon call him Abel) but wasn’t sure, during the trip we were kinda getting closer so after I added him on snap we talked and 1 week after a guy in my class ( we gon call him Mac) added me too, I was confused and he basically told me he was interested so I gave him a chance bcs why not. The problems start when Mac goes out with his friends and he tells me after that when he was only with Abel he started talking about me. I started stressing bcs I was scared that he might tell him a talk to him. Abel was basically flexing the fact that I send him pictures of my face and all that, but Mac was confused bcs they’re supposed to be friends. Bcs I follow the two of them on insta so it’s means that Abel was looking trough my profile and found out me and Mac are following each other( Mac doesn’t follow any girl). Afterwards I stopped talking to Abel and talked with Mac only for less than a month at first I liked him he even bought me flowers, but with time I started getting the ick like I don’t wanna talk to him, I felt bad bcs he is really into me and lovebombing me too much. I was still thinking about Abel so I just told Mac that we should stop talking for now bcs it’s not working. After I started talking to Abel again and told him that I didn’t like the fact that he was flexing in front of his friends about me, he said that he was sorry and never wanted to hurt me but when we talk I just feel like he is not trying hard enough like Mac was. Currently I’m not talking with any of them, I feel like I miss the attention Mac was giving me but idk if I prefer the excitement I get when Abel is texting me. What should I do?

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u/Lazy_Zone_2064 — 12 days ago