Transition to big bathtub
My daughter is 13ms old and today was her first day in the big bath tub. She didn’t fit in the baby tub anymore so I went to target today and got a bathtub mat so she doesn’t slip in there. I scrubbed and cleaned the tub/shower real good , replaced the plastic curtain to a new clean one and washed the fabric shower curtain so everything was clean and perfect. But my bd made me feel like I did something wrong. (I am the full time parent he lives far but he calls) He always talks to her during her night time routine and tonight after the call ended he sent me a link for a collapsible toddler bath tub… and he didn’t have anything to say when I was like omg I can’t believe she’s big enough for a big girl bath now time flies n he just sat there. Idk it rubbed me the wrong way. I see no issue in giving her a bath in the big tub now. I put enough water to cover her legs but not too deep and I plan on cleaning the bath and mat every day what’s the issue ? So I ask him why did you send that and he said “Because its bigger” “Thought it would be better than regular bathtub idk if its of interest”. Thoughts ? I feel like there’s nothing wrong with the tub esp if I am sanatizing it every day. If he wants her to bathe in a foldable tub so bad he can go pay for it his damn self and fly here every night to fill it up and put it away etc. When she grows out of that one then what?