u/Lazy-Recognition4371

▲ 11 r/Bumble

I mean it's obvious what they want, but I can't believe the disrespect. What am I? A SW? And it's happened more than once in the different countries I've lived in or travelled to😂

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u/Lazy-Recognition4371 — 8 days ago

I know the job market is a dumpster fire but omg, I think I'm gonna need to see my therapist more often.

I've been applying for months. I studied international relations and law (yes I know, I'm basically unemployable) and I've found a short-term gig but the contract is nearly over and I want to be a full-time researcher so bad!

Back in December a company replied to my application. They made me do a 3-hour assignment and they told me the preliminary feedback was positive, then they hired someone else.

I don't know what to do with myself. I decided to put the "open to work" banner on linkedin and make a post asking my network for help, despite how cringy it feels.

I should have gotten an MBA.

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u/Lazy-Recognition4371 — 13 days ago
▲ 3 r/r4r

Moved to the west of Ireland in February and I haven't met (romantically that is) anyone interesting yet.

Most men here are either taken or emotionally unavailable in my experience. I'm not Irish so it's all new to me, and I admit I had a romanticized notion of Ireland (I still love it), but it can't be that bad, can it?

I know Ireland is very small but there must be an eligible bachelor in the neighborhood 🥴

If you like full-figured women, are between the ages of 26 and 35 and live in Ireland, don't be shy and drop me a message.

This is not my first r4r post, so if you've DMed me and I haven't replied it's probably because you are way too far.

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u/Lazy-Recognition4371 — 14 days ago

Didn't mean for the title to sound so poetic lol.

I admit I'm very burnt out from dating and I've taken breaks, as suggested by many. I focused on myself, I tried socializing, taking part in different activities, and approaching people in the wild. Nothing has worked. Reddit hasn't been successful either.

Yet I persist. The indomitable human spirit is truly something.

Somebody must be out there for me. I'm not looking for perfection, just someone whose imperfections I find endearing.

Some key info so you know who's behind this screen:

- I'm plus size, in the process of losing weight but still not there yet.

- I'm looking for someone who'll make me excited for each single notification, who's good with words and who's not a dry texter or conversationalist.

- I'm based in Ireland (not Irish) so ideally looking for people close by. Distance unfortunately can be a problem.

-ideally someone close to my age.

If you also yearn for romance and don't take my enthusiasm for desperation, DM me.

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u/Lazy-Recognition4371 — 14 days ago
▲ 7 r/r4r

After yet another mind-numbing conversation on bumble I'm here again, trying not to completely lose hope.

I've been looking for jobs and I don't know what's more depressing, the dating scene or the job market. So please somebody help a girl out!

Plus size, funny and unhinged, this is more or less me. The funny part is questionable, the plus size part is important since physical attraction can't be forced, so I understand people who like fitter women, no offence taken.

I like dad bods but the personality and chemistry is much more important.

Hobbies mmm 🤔 it's always a tough question because I've been so busy that I kinda end up bed rotting and scrolling on my phone but I mostly go to gigs, read and watch movies.

I'm not very active, but I'm trying to change that, although realistically I will never be a gym rat, so be warned.

Kinda trying to find someone before nuclear annihilation wipes us out. So don't be shy and be weird within reason pls, I've had some creepy stuff happen in my DMs😭

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u/Lazy-Recognition4371 — 15 days ago