u/LawyerExpress9531

Can wait for Saturday. Will make some amaretto sours 😛

I had a client in a private show ask if I had any “slutty friends” who would be interested in him. He said he wants a sugar baby. I kind of played along in the moment because it was a paid private and I didn’t want to make things awkward, but I never intended to involve anyone real.

He said he’s 41 from Dubai and told me to text a friend his number since I wasn’t interested in travelling. He then said he’d give me $1k if they (him and a friend) met and $5k if they got married. I said “sure” during the show, but obviously I’m not going to put an actual friend in that situation. All of this obviously raised red flags for me and sounds like bonkers.

I don’t use social media and try to keep my personal life very separate from camming, so now I’m anxious wondering what his intentions were and whether I should be worried if I stop responding/block him. I was obviously nude and all and I’m scared he can use that against me? Idk

He def crossed a boundary by trying to involve people from my real life. I never allow this to happen but I slipped because I was getting payed by the minute and my private shows are a bit expensive

I’m (22F) a university student and I’m currently moving into a one-bedroom apartment. My parents are helping financially with tuition and rent right now, which I do appreciate, but lately it feels like the support comes with a level of control over my life that I can’t handle anymore. They’re paying 80% of rent. And I’m paying the remainder.
For context, I’ve always had very strict parents. They track my location, expect immediate replies, question where I go, and often make me feel guilty for wanting independence. My brother is also very aligned with them and snitched on me to them. I am constantly monitored.

This is why I started working part time to slowly start gaining independence. But I also started another job related to the adult industry which pays VERY well.

Recently, my mom wanted to stay in my new apartment for TWO MONTHS. I said she was welcome to stay for a couple of weeks, but that two months in such a small space would be too much for me. I also said I didn’t want to store all of my brother’s belongings there because the unit is small.
That led to both of my parents calling me selfish, saying I have an “ugly personality,” and calling me a bitch. They want me to go to church and honestly I’m not even religious anymore. they said I’m a “bad person” for not going.

What hurts is that I don’t think I’m asking for anything unreasonable. I just want boundaries and autonomy. I’m grateful for the help, but I feel like because they contribute financially, they think they’re entitled to every decision in my life.

I’ve gotten to the point where I want to pay my own rent entirely so they stop feeling like they own me. The issue is that if I do that, it will likely create a huge family conflict. Part of me is wondering if I need distance from them altogether because every attempt at independence turns into guilt, insults, or pressure.
Idk if I’m overreacting or if this is genuinely unhealthy family dynamics.

Is it just me or is it super slow on CB?

My first 3 weeks were good, but now it’s slowing down a lot. This has me worried.

Is it normal that it’s been this slow lately? Any tips? I usually stream late at night. Maybe changing my schedule could help?