u/Lawyer-mom1118

I got a lip flip done for the first time 11 days ago. My lip still completely flips up. Not even a slight difference. What do I do? I never had Botox done before and am very disappointed.

I 31F have been married to my husband 33M for 7 years and we have 3 kids together. He is working out of state for the time being. After posting a photo with some influencer something told me to check his socials. I put it off for a few days and then I finally did. I got access to his instagram and boy was I in for a shock. We come from a conservative background so when I saw this “influencer” sending him posts about “if hugging and kissing weren’t frowned upon or if they were permissible”. She sent him a few posts that were not necessarily appropriate. The messages between them didn’t show much. Basically they met about two weeks ago for a promo then they sent some reels and photos then the inappropriate reels posts were sent. He didn’t interact with any of the later posts. I am still determining what went down.

Besides that, there were PLENTY of posts shared between him and friends of practically naked women, “soft p\\\*rn”, girls dancing etc. they’d reply to each other with “ugh I’m tired” and tongue emojis and things of that nature. These messages deeply deeply hurt. And he knew they would. Putting aside the fact that there may have been something between him and this girl, would you consider this that type of cheating? AIO if I am considering divorce? We have been going through a rough patch the past year and I feel like this was the straw that broke the camels back.