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Lemme give whole story, in 2025 (around January) I met a boy (let’s call him “1”), 1 wanted to date boys for the first time, he said he was gay and first time he dated anyone, he was very charming and honestly I fell so much in love, and I basically came out to him (second or third person irl, 1st and second and still my besties) we lived in same apartment complex, so 1 would often come to my house, I did all the bottom things, sitting on his lap, hugging him and kissing him (only did on neck or cheeks) one day I had to go to another city due to some personal reasons (very very very sad reason involving death of one of my most beloved grandpa, he was super nice to us, he was strict though, but he was a man of principles, never allowed anyone to be wronged, unfortunately his second marriage because he became a widower was with a gold digger) two weeks later I returned. 1 had changed, looking back he was likely in with me for physical attraction (it’s april 2026 by now), suddenly one day he messaged me that I am disgusting, I should move on and that I am lucky for even getting a chance with him, afterwards in the evening, he came with his new boyfriend to my house (my parents thought he was a close friend of me still, and they paid no attention to him bringing someone else with him (let’s call him 2), to be very honest 2 is much much more prettier than me, and 2 is holy cute. Anyways they pressured me to give everything, saying that those gifts should be his, though he gave to me, but still eventually I just gave him everything, it involved them literally going through my wardrobe, they took some stuff which I planned to give to 1 as well. Which makes no sense, afterwards 1 literally spat in my face and left. The gifts weren’t even that expensive, but I planned to give 1, a iPhone 13, he even took that, yeah, pretty traumatic
What pains me the most as of right now is that that iPhone 13 was pta approved, my current phone is far far worse then the iPhone 13 pta. Is it bad that I just wanted to give a gift

Lemme give whole story, in 2025 (around January) I met a boy (let’s call him “1”), 1 wanted to date boys for the first time, he said he was gay and first time he dated anyone, he was very charming and honestly I fell so much in love, and I basically came out to him (second or third person irl, 1st and second and still my besties) we lived in same apartment complex, so 1 would often come to my house, I did all the bottom things, sitting on his lap, hugging him and kissing him (only did on neck or cheeks) one day I had to go to another city due to some personal reasons (very very very sad reason involving death of one of my most beloved grandpa, he was super nice to us, he was strict though, but he was a man of principles, never allowed anyone to be wronged, unfortunately his second marriage because he became a widower was with a gold digger) two weeks later I returned. 1 had changed, looking back he was likely in with me for physical attraction (it’s april 2026 by now), suddenly one day he messaged me that I am disgusting, I should move on and that I am lucky for even getting a chance with him, afterwards in the evening, he came with his new boyfriend to my house (my parents thought he was a close friend of me still, and they paid no attention to him bringing someone else with him (let’s call him 2), to be very honest 2 is much much more prettier than me, and 2 is holy cute. Anyways they pressured me to give everything, saying that those gifts should be his, though he gave to me, but still eventually I just gave him everything, it involved them literally going through my wardrobe, they took some stuff which I planned to give to 1 as well. Which makes no sense, afterwards 1 literally spat in my face and left. The gifts weren’t even that expensive, but I planned to give 1, a iPhone 13, he even took that, yeah, pretty traumatic

I ran a social experiment.
I put an ad giving away a Motorola Edge+ 2020 for 55k, another ad for the same phone for 45k, and another one for 35k.
All were on different accounts and used different photos, but had the same condition and everything.

For 35k, I got offers of 30k and 25k, only 2 offers total (since I didn’t put any tags, while people put every SINGLE PHONE NAME in their description to effectively ruin the search).

For 45k, I got an offer of 30k by the same person who offered 25k on the 35k ad.

For 55k, I received the most offers, but they were all limited to 30–35k. The 55k ad got me 17 leads, while the others were in single digits.

I tried to give it to a person who agreed to 35k on the 35k ad. He came in person and started bargaining for 30k, which I rightfully didn’t accept.

Later on, I gave it to a person for 35k.

This culture drives me insane.
If you ever want a surgery you know who to ask

For this phone o tried many including
1:lineageos (a16)
2:evox (a16)
3:UN1CA 2.5.6 (a14)
4:Un1CA 3.0.6 (a16)
5:Hyperos371 (didn’t boot up)
6:Coloros (made buzzing sounds)
Personally didn’t like any of these I want something with very good animations and something which has parallel animations