u/LavenderEucalyptus_

Hi! Not sure if this is the right sub, so please let me know if I should post somewhere else.

I’m 27F and have 2 under 2. Both pregnancies were overall uncomplicated, but during my second pregnancy I started having a lot of pelvic pain and external pain during sex. My OB said it was “normal” and likely due to hormones, stress, dryness, etc.
I’m now 3.5 months postpartum and sex is still painful most of the time. I got an IUD inserted at 2 months postpartum and initially I thought the pain was from that. But I also had pain before it was placed. The IUD actually had to be reinserted because it had moved, and I’m getting it checked again next week.
Yesterday I had my annual exam (Pap smear) and it was extremely painful. I’ve never had issues with Pap smears before but this time the speculum insertion hurt a lot. My doctor even said it was abnormal and that it shouldn’t hurt that much. The Pap itself wasn’t the issue, it was the insertion.
She will be checking my IUD next week and going from there. She mentioned it can take up to 6 months postpartum for things to fully adjust and also suggested I might need to pause any form of contraception temporarily to see if that helps.
For now, she recommended using hyaluronic acid as a vaginal moisturizer.
But I guess I’m just wondering, has anyone experienced something similar? Is this something that can still be normal postpartum, or should I be more concerned? Did it eventually get better for you?

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u/LavenderEucalyptus_ — 7 days ago
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Hi mamas, I recently lost my WFH job, so for now I’m becoming a full-time SAHM to my 22-month-old and 3-month-old (as much as I can for the moment). My toddler used to spend a lot of time with grandparents while I worked, but now I really want to be more present, create a good routine, and keep both kids engaged.

We live in a small townhouse with no yard, but we have parks nearby and my parents have a backyard/pool. I’d love to be more organized, but I’m definitely more Type B/C mom trying to survive 😂

What activities actually keep your high-energy toddler entertained without relying too much on screen time?

Also… how are you getting anything done around the house with 2 little ones and no cleaning help? Laundry, cooking, cleaning, etc. I feel like I’m constantly trying to do everything during naps, but naps are unpredictable or on different schedules.

How do you structure your day and realistically manage it all without losing your mind?

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u/LavenderEucalyptus_ — 17 days ago