u/Last_Economy5323

Need help !!!

Im 19 rn took a drop for neet 26, flipped it up and now Im stuck. Ive been an over achiever from very young age. Tho I wasnt the 1st ill be in top 4. But things took the biggest turn ever during covid. I started cheating for my exam...online classes, online exams. So evryone thought i was some shit. Cuz of all the cheating i forgot how to learn. But ive always been someone who grasps concept really well esp in class, the over answering student in class. The came 10th boards offline, i had no clue how to study, since I was an active listener i got 94%(everyone in school expected 98%, so thats a major disappointment). 11th full jolly no studying...still topped in class. Then 12th got 91% taking pcmb..again everyone expected 95 above, again a disappoinment. Then the major question what next....i never really knew what to do all alonf so I went with neet cuz my cousins have topped that exam. Got into a coaching miles away from where i live in a hostel. First, i ddint know how to learn cuz everyone there had a coaching bg..n there was me. I scores were lowm then i satrted cheating in all weekly test. N before I could stop it...the model exams got over and neet was near. I cheated all year long, cheating my myself and my parents. Neet got over 450 max, cuz I could only do a handful of questiosn from phy. Lied to my parents, even then my father called me a mistake( lied i got 580). Ive now registered for iat. I just dont wanna be a mistake, i wanna prove myself. I dont wanna go thru neet again. Its that Im not dumb, i can solve hard questions but doomscrolling flipped up my brain, i cant concentrate, i cant sit still n study. Im overthinking and wasting my time. I literally dont study and get good grades. I dont know how to get out of this loop. Can someone pls help!!!

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u/Last_Economy5323 — 6 days ago

Pls help!!!

Im 19 rn took a drop for neet 26, flipped it up and now Im stuck. Ive been an over achiever from very young age. Tho I wasnt the 1st ill be in top 4. But things took the biggest turn ever during covid. I started cheating for my exam...online classes, online exams. So evryone thought i was some shit. Cuz of all the cheating i forgot how to learn. But ive always been someone who grasps concept really well esp in class, the over answering student in class. The came 10th boards offline, i had no clue how to study, since I was an active listener i got 94%(everyone in school expected 98%, so thats a major disappointment). 11th full jolly no studying...still topped in class. Then 12th got 91% taking pcmb..again everyone expected 95 above, again a disappoinment. Then the major question what next....i never really knew what to do all alonf so I went with neet cuz my cousins have topped that exam. Got into a coaching miles away from where i live in a hostel. First, i ddint know how to learn cuz everyone there had a coaching bg..n there was me. I scores were lowm then i satrted cheating in all weekly test. N before I could stop it...the model exams got over and neet was near. I cheated all year long, cheating my myself and my parents. Neet got over 450 max, cuz I could only do a handful of questiosn from phy. Lied to my parents, even then my father called me a mistake( lied i got 580). Ive now registered for iat. I just dont wanna be a mistake, i wanna prove myself. I dont wanna go thru neet again. Its that Im not dumb, i can solve hard questions but doomscrolling flipped up my brain, i cant concentrate, i cant sit still n study. Im overthinking and wasting my time. I literally dont study and get good grades. I dont know how to get out of this loop. Can someone pls help!!!

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u/Last_Economy5323 — 6 days ago

Book recc plssss

Hi so I am 19 n I wanna get into the habit of reading. The last tym i read a book was ig back in 7th grade, n then i enjoyed reading gernonimo, thea, harry potter, wimpy kid, tinkle and all those idk if they r relevant or not. I also did read one of us is lying when in 11th...a descent book but idk if that is the genre I like, its not a bad book but I wanna explore. Im not into too serious books or books that are boring cuz i wanna get into the hang of reading. My brain is tooooo fired cuz of the constant doom scrolling n my attention span is veryyyyy small. I dont wanna read romance or smut. I dont want self help either. I think i kinda like fiction . I just dont know what i like, i just know what i dont want. So plsss help mee

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u/Last_Economy5323 — 6 days ago

I was a neet aspirant n wrote neet 2026, it didnt go well..unfortunately even after cosching from brilliant. now my parents who acted very supportive, n said pattuna pole cheyy, kittiya kitti allel chatti has turned their plates. they are now saying I didnt study shit...tho i scored well for mocks. they are bringing up my cbse board makrs, it wasnt that bad i got 91 percent taking pcmb. I said I wouldve done better if I had taken online and didnt stay at hostel cuz of their forcing. their argument is I didnt study well during my boards. my parents they act all supportive at the time of exam n say they dont care abt the result. but they turn out to be chameleons after the results come out. what do i do ? is it an og event ?

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u/Last_Economy5323 — 10 days ago