u/Key-Effective-3140

Hung up on ex from 3 years ago. It’s ruining my life. Ways to get over it that don’t include finding someone new?

Hung up on ex from 3 years ago. It’s ruining my life.

I’ve done everything to try and forget this girl.

It’s reached a point where I’m not living at all. I wake up and distract myself until I can get home from work and take some sleeping pills.

I’ve never had good luck with women, and someone managed to get myself into a relationship with the most beautiful girl.

The relationship ended up being super toxic and more than likely got cheated on. They tried reaching back out but I stubbornly ignored the reach out.

I’m depressed. I feel cheated of a future. I feel naive for getting played and used for when it was convenient. It’s changed my view of relationships and people in general.

Ontop of all of it, I don’t have a career, slowly losing all my friends as they progress in life and I stay stuck.

There’s a girl who comes into my work who I’m thinking about asking out, if she says no, I’m giving up on all of it.

Absolutely miserable with the way I turned out. Nobody to blame but myself

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u/Key-Effective-3140 — 10 hours ago