u/KabiX2 — reddlx

I remember when my family told me that there will be time for a girlfriend. Now they say if I have any girlfriend. They say that I definitely get a lot of attention from girls, which is not true. Whenever they ask questions like this I feel uneasy, what do I have to say to them? That I am a loser with 0 pull?

I don't want to upset them so I say shi like, not yet or just tell them to stop, but I feel that every year the pressure grows and in few years the question will be 'when?'. You could say I am average in terms of looks(like 6/10 max, although I've been told that I don't look that bad ), average height. I don't feel I am mature enough to be a good partner, I certainly wouldn't like to have a partner like that. I don't know how to talk to girls and I don't feel I could be a good partner in long term relationship. I've been trying to improve for the last 3 years by exercising(bulked +8kg in like 2 years and built ok, lean physique that I am satisfied with, but nothing spectacular) I've also tried to work on my character and well-being, maybe I am more aware,understanding and mature but in my opinion there are no significant changes or maybe I am blind to it. I don't go outside often except to school, gym and shops. And when I do I prefer to go on a walk either with a friend or alone and enjoy nature (but I am trying to go outside more). I have no idea how can I get a girlfriend so if fate doesn't deliver someone right in front of my nose, who would be genuinely interested in me I will have to accept that it's over.