u/KCrobble

I am interested in totally platonic snailmail penpals, so began looking into this subreddit. Because my experience with this is decades out of date, I held some naive questions about it:

1. Are there any particular things I can do to help penpals feel safe interacting via snailmail with me? It sounds dumb, but we did not think about stalking, doxxing etc when I was young. The internet was not around until I was in my mid-late 20s. I am a man and while not particularly looking for female penpals, I want to make it safe for anyone including myself.

2. I looked into PO Boxes and (at least where I live) they are stupidly expensive. $30/month for the small ones. -Are there any other anonymizing alternatives for physical mail?

Thanks in advance for any advice

When I set a priority on a To-Do item, upon save, it gets lost.

I have to re-open the item and set the priority a 2nd time

Anyone else have the same?

EDIT: I have determined it happens if you set the priority before you type the text of the to-do. If you write out the To-Do, and THEN set the priority it works fine.

Definitely a small bug

I have a need for an RPG map image that can be available via browser to multiple people. The map needs to have basic coloring/highlighting and text labels tools for players to update it asynchronously.

The only thing I can think of is Owlbear Rodeo which would work (I think) though the tools are not strong.

Any other ideas that are VTT or non-VTT?