u/Justonecubeofice

So match with this guy on hinge, things were going well, really easy conversation and good vibes. We do a first date, had a second date two days later. He came back to my place, we made out, he would’ve done the deed but I didn’t want to. He ends it by saying for date #3 he wants to pick me up and make dinner for us.

I get this text when he got home: Thank you for spending some time with me. I enjoyed our time :) Looking forward to date #3 and you experiencing some of my cooking 😌

Of which I basically just agreed with him that I had a good time the following morning. he hearted those messages pretty quickly after that. I check hinge that morning to see I’ve been unmatched. Maybe he deleted it, idk but kind of weird.

I hear nothing yesterday, sent this today during the morning: Hey hope you had a good Friday! Lmk when you’d wanna do date numero 3. I’m around this weekend but we could always do something next week as well

We tentatively were maybe gonna do something tonight but he didn’t know if he’d be available, which is fine. But I’ve heard NOTHING since I sent that like 8 hours ago and up to this point he’s been pretty responsive. He gave me nothing to feel like he would ghost me, I’m just honestly super confused by this. The hinge unmatch or whatever he did makes me more suspicious as well. He didn’t unfollow me on insta. He also told me slight potentially love bombing things like how he already feels bonded to me and that he likes me…when he obviously has known me for a week. So idk what to think of this one.

We had moved things over to text, spent time together twice this week (so two dates in). After he got home Thursday he sent this: Thank you for spending some time with me. I enjoyed our time :) Looking forward to date #3 and you experiencing some of my cooking 😌

I responded appropriately, he hearted the messages. That was yesterday morning, and I also checked hinge that morning to see i had been unmatched. I text this today to follow up: Hey hope you had a good Friday! Lmk when you’d wanna do date numero 3. I’m around this weekend but we could always do something next week as well.

He normally responds quick, I sent that almost 7 hours ago and have heard nothing. He told me he liked me and complimented me and whatnot, said he felt bonded to me. That was date #2. Which to me was a little much to say, but idk the vibe was good both dates. Now I’m just very confused