u/Justathinkingkitty

He was so disgusted after I told him I wanted to sleep with a woman before us getting married, and he told me if I do to never tell him. I wasn’t out or knew I was bi at the time. It was such a red flag. How did I not just wake up and leave his ass then. Took me years to get the courage to leave, ironically only after he cheated on me with a woman who looked just like me. As I write this, maybe I haven’t healed from that wound. Anyone else have a similar experience?

1. Pro lesbian here

2. Bisexual

3. Increasingly giving up on straight guys respecting me at all

The binary obsession that bisexuals must be straight or lesbian, nothing in between. I’m soooo over it. Bi erasure is straight guys default because they can’t fathom we don’t find them specifically attractive. The audacity. Classic cis man delusion. Over it. Bro you might just not be as attractive as you think you are. Rant over.