u/Jealous_Gate875

How do bratty subs push a dom's buttons during sex?

I'm naturally submissive but I enjoy playful bratty teasing with dominant partners. How do people flirt or tease in a consensual way that builds tension and intensity during sex?
Honestly, I can do it easily when I know the guy well. But I hooked up with a guy recently and I was tooooo shy to do anything.

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u/Jealous_Gate875 — 10 hours ago
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I’m sleeping with my best friend’s sworn enemy

My best friend has a sworn enemy. That guy (I’ll refer to him as “apple”) and my friend had a huge argument in college a year ago. He said very hurtful things to her, she had panic attacks because of him. and I was not her friend back then. But she complained to the management and they made sure he had back logs subjects.
He texted me 3-4 months ago, he’s a fuckboy, and I love sex too. He invited me to his house and we had sex and it’s still happening. I didn’t tell this to anyone. Literally no one. I keep that part separate.
Few day ago, someone she knew I was talking to him and she confronted me. I told her we were just friends and there’s nothing more going on.

I am someone who thinks, there are a lot of parts in my life and my friends are a “part” of it. I don’t have to make personal decisions based on my friend’s history. I don’t have to accommodate for their emotions. I know exactly what I’m doing and that is why I keep different parts of my life separate.

She said I should cut him off.
I didn’t.
I went to his house and had sex again.
And I am not guilty.

I hate making decisions based on other’s emotions. I love my autonomy and I want it. And I don’t expect any of my friends to hate my enemy just because I hate them. I don’t bring up my past when my friend starts talking to my enemy.

All of us went through different situations. The situations I have been through, made me think like this.

I don’t like some of her friends, but I never tell her to stop being friends with them.

I hate being told what to do. I hate it.

And I’m not guilty for what I did. PERIOD.

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u/Jealous_Gate875 — 5 days ago