u/JazzlikeMistake9237

Hello everyone, how are you? I hope you're all doing well 😊❤️.

I am just asking because Cinderella is one of my favorite characters of all time, she is kind, gentle, supportive, and responsible despite all the mistreatment she endured through, I always took her as an example to always choose kindness and forgiveness to everyone around me including myself and that's why I feel that I somewhat kin her and find her bringing me so much comfort.

With that being said, I saw her on pdb typed as an isfj, but there are also good arguments for infp to be honest, like how she chose to go to the party behind her stepmother, falling in love with a prince she just met, and they say that links to fi ne functions, and to be honest I quite agree to that, as an isfj if someone told me not to do something I will just not do it out of respect to them or just try to persuade and convince them that this is what I need and if they refuse I just swipe it under the rug until there is an opportunity to me to get what I want, also I am quite skeptical to the concept of love In the first sight for me I need to examine someone closely and carefully in order to know if we are compatible with each others or not; in order to save our feelings and energies.

So yeah that's just what I think and I am glad to discuss her type with you, maybe there are some things that I have missed so far, it has been years since I watched the film but still remember lots of it, haha 😆.

Hello 👋 how are you guys? I hope you're all doing well 😊.

Well just a few questions please as now I know I do have

e7 in my tritype and the more I read about it I discovered

that it is actually a frustration type meaning wants to

implement specific ideals into reality instead of conforming to it and this also can be said for e4 and e1 as well;

so that's why people may confuse them at least in my case of being mistyped with those types, the thing about gluttony is whenever I have something that makes me happy I just want more and more,

I don't only want to be happy, no I want to be the happiest spreading joy and kindness wherever I go,

but the thing is I can get crushed by reality and responsibilities that keep me grounded but I keep yearning for new experiences, possibilities and opportunities not only for me but for others to escape the pain and limitations that are forced into us,

I guess people with e7 in their tritype do have some rebellious qualities when it comes to their pleasurable live styles.

So what do you think guys?, is being e7 different than that?, I get that e7 is a head type represent fear and I think that the fear is fear of pain, deprivation and limits as far as I know and which I relate to actually.

Hello everyone, how are you doing? I hope you're doing great 😃.

So, I finally found out my type after years of being mistyped as xnfp but instead I am xsfj so/sp 927, but I want to discuss it a bit further with you, please. And this is just some venting as I feel quite guilty and want to express my feelings about my type.

1- I am really not that selfless to be honest, I am somewhat selfish in my desires, however feel guilty for that and try to compromise in that area, but the thing is I am selfish as a self preservation tactic more than staying true to myself kind of thing, it is instead saying this is dangerous, stressful or not suitable for me so I tell myself that I have to refuse doing them.

2- the thing that I am truly selfless in is feelings, meaning I care about others feelings more than my own a lot of times, that I even compromise my values to cater to someone's emotions even though I am right and they're wrong but I just cannot stand hurting or harming someone, I want to be a safe person for others to rely emotionally on, and I am quiet prideful in that, but it gets draining so much that I isolate myself so often to protect myself.

3- I have a moral compass that changes every time I hear something new that shifts my perspective on things, like I know not everything is black and white, and so I found some compromises to be reasonable in some aspects in life.

4- I actually try my best to make others comfortable around me so that I can be comfortable as well, I don't like when others and I are not on the same page, and I enjoy making others laugh so much that I can use self deprecating humor and still not take it personally lol 😂.

5- I am actually not empathetic all the time, most of the time I am apathetic but pretend to be empathetic, to avoid troubles and tensions as I don't like drama and know that others need someone to understand them and ease their pain, so I try my best to help them, but I get burnout quickly and easily so I just keep isolating myself😅🥹.

So yeah this is just how I feel about my typing to be honest. So do you guys relate to that ? And I hope I am not making a bad impression with you guys, just curious in what you think to be honest and I love hearing your opinions and thoughts.🥰❤️

Hello everyone, how are you doing? I hope you're doing well 😊.

So yeah, as the title suggests I am trying to find out my type more, to be honest with you a few years ago I typed myself xnfp but considered xsfj as well as these types can be somewhat similar and also my enneagram is 974 or 972 still not sure about e2 and e4 in my tritype but will manage don't worry😅.

So I will try my best to describe myself as briefly as possible

1- I am an emotional affectionate person, when I love someone I just say it and try to know what they like to do it for them and what they dislike and try my best to avoid it, although externally I appear somewhat cold and detached but actually is really warm and enthusiastic once you get to know.

2- I am a stable, practical person meaning if I know anything useful will just do it, and often ask what's the purpose of learning a specific subject if we cannot implement it into reality, and don't get me wrong I love imaginative creative pursuits of course, but I love it more to put it in reality other than metaphorically.

3- I am quite empathetic if I saw someone I know crying I immediately talk to them to help them and would be hurt if refused my help but always remind myself that everyone needs their space lol 😂, and if someone is excited and happy I can be excited and happy with them as well, but the thing is most of the time I am detached from reality due to burnout so I can also be quite apathetic not feeling anything inside, but pretend regardless to empathize with in order not to hurt someone's feelings.

4-The thing that I crave deeply is love, acceptance,affection, peace, and emotional support, I try my best to love and be loved, so I am polite, sweet and supportive as much as I can.

5- I can say confidently that I am an ambivert, I truly enjoy having good times with others making beautiful meaningful memories together, and at the same time really like to be by myself chilling in my solitude lol.

6- I love emotional expression, but don't like drama or pettiness, although I can be that but control myself immediately I don't want to trouble myself or anyone with negative attention, and the emotion I hate expression the most is anger, as I get fight or flight when someone gets angry or when I become angry, I just hate it and want peace and harmony in my environment.

7- I am very religious and moralistic, want to do what is right and avoid doing what's wrong, and do have strong moral code, but I am not sure if it is internal or external though, I guess it is both, as I try to filter morals as a whole logically, like what makes the most sense to me.

8- people tend to love me and find it easy to talk to me, and I also love talking to people and know how to get to know them, but the thing is people consume me unfortunately, either by being clingy refusing to give me time for myself, or just straight up use me for their personal gain، and then just bunch of people ignore me like I am a ghost 😅, all that hurts so that's why I distance myself from people even if I love them dearly🥹.

9- I can be quite blunt and straightforward with someone only when I get irritated from them for stepping boundaries for too much, I am very patient and forgiving but do have limits as any human being, but I regret it immediately and just apologize a lot, because I unfortunately can get ruthless when pushed too much, people get scared of me because of this side and I try to control it the best I could, but it just slip from me and I feel guilt and shame; because I don't like to hurt anyone's feelings as I know what feeling hurt feels like and I don't want people to experience the hurt that I went through.

So yeah, this is it, I hope it is not too long for you to read and also if you do have any question you can of course ask I will love to hear your thoughts and opinions.

And I hope you all have a wonderful day 🥰❤️.