u/Jaded_Fee_3530

Like the title says, I’m considering asking for a divorce. We’ve been married about five years. TBH we married quickly to keep halal, but I had hoped love would grow but it hasn’t. I worry how blindsided and alone he will feel since he just immigrated to the US and isn’t close with his family. We have a one year old. And for me I feel like I’ve been avoiding the inevitable. Anyone been here? He’s a great guy, just not for me 😕

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u/Jaded_Fee_3530 — 10 days ago

Like the title says, I’m considering asking for a divorce. We’ve been married about five years. TBH we married quickly to keep halal, but I had hoped love would grow but it hasn’t. I worry how blindsided and alone he will feel since he just immigrated to the US and isn’t close with his family. We have a one year old. And for me I feel like I’ve been avoiding the inevitable. Anyone been here? He’s a great guy, just not for me 😕

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u/Jaded_Fee_3530 — 10 days ago

Financial Guilt

Anyone else feel guilty spending money on themselves even though they’re the one earning it?
Like I pay every bill, handle every emergency, make sure everyone is taken care of — and then I feel guilty buying myself something without a reason.
Is this just me or is this a breadwinning spouse thing?

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u/Jaded_Fee_3530 — 11 days ago