u/IronNebula9011

So I've had Spotify premium for about three years. Last year my friend "Nadia" moved to a new city and was going through a rough patch financially, so I added her to my plan. I have the duo plan anyway, she needed music, it seemed like a simple nice thing to do. At first it was completely fine. She had her own profile, I had mine, zero overlap.

Then a few months ago I started noticing my library was getting weird. Songs I'd never heard of appearing in my liked songs. Playlists I'd carefully built over two years were suddenly shuffled into a different order. My "focus" playlist had about 40 songs I didn't recognise and several of mine were removed. I thought maybe the app was glitching.

Then I noticed my Discover Weekly was completely off. Like not just a bit wrong, recommending artists I've never listened to and genres I actively avoid. Took me a while to realise what had happened - Nadia had apparently been adding things to and removing things from my profile instead of hers. I think she kept mixing up which account she was in.

I brought it up and she apologised, said she'd be more careful. Two weeks later I found three of my carefully sorted playlists had been combined into one. When I asked about it she said "oh I thought those could be one playlist, it made more sense." She made decisions about my library without asking because she thought her way was better. My Discover Weekly still hasn't recovered fully. It's been two months.

I want to remove her from my plan. I feel a little guilty because I know she's still not in a great place financially. But it's my account and she's been treating it like a shared creative project when it's not. Would I be wrong to just quietly remove her?

Me (31F) and my coworker Dana (I'll call her that) have worked together about two years. Fine relationship, no drama, she's good at her job when she shows up. That last part is the thing.\

Dana is late probably three times a week. Not five minutes late, I mean 20-40 minutes , walks in with coffee, sits down, headphones on. Our manager does a walkthrough at 9:15 every morning and for the past four months I've been doing this thing where I cover for her without even really deciding to. "She's on a call." "She just stepped out." "She mentioned something about the parking lot." All lies, all from me, all protecting someone who has never once said thank you or acknow ledged that I'm doing it.

Last tuesday the manager asked me directly where Dana was and I just said "I'm not sure, I haven't seen her yet." That's it. Dana walked in seven minutes later, manager was still nearby, saw her come in, pulled her aside. I don't know what was said but Dana was quiet for the rest of the day and gave me this look like I'd done something to her.

After work she texted me "I thought we had each other's backs." I said we do, but I never agreed to lie to management for her on a daily basis and she never actually asked me to, I just kind of fell into it. She said she thought it was understood. I said I don't think that's fair to assume. She's been cold since.

I'm not going out of my way to report her or anything, I'm just done inventing excuses. AITA?