So my brother just had his 2nd baby and told me he was upset because the custom made blankets, which I have done for both my nephews omitted their surname.
He suggested that I did this because I dont have a relationship with our dad (I share the same surname as I'm unmarried) and that 'I put my needs/wants before theirs'
This is my response after removing identifying aspects:
The above message was such an insulting presumption and unnecessary complaint. It really makes it clear you think I am incredibly petty or malicious.
It was never brought to my attention and honestly if you had after the first bub, i would have done the same thing so the blankets match when they get older
Omitting our surname was not anything related to dad, I just thought it was placed better and the other designs were first letter, first name or first and middle.
Whether you're upset or not is not my concern, nor my problem. They are gifts for my nephews that I went to the costs and efforts to get made and rather than be grateful and appreciative you not only critique them but also insinuate i did it because of my own personal issues.
I would appreciate an apology and if you think its not a reasonable request then I dont know what to say...
AM I BEING ENTITLED OR IS HE?