Am I a pervert or incel
For some reason it’s extremely hard for me (21 M) to speak to girls.
Recently, I’m on a position where I have to socialize with lot of women.
They are very open when they speak to me, they initiate conversations multiple times with me and all, I don’t think they think I’m weird or a creep.
I don’t think anyone would consider me ugly (but not a model either).
However, it is really hard for me to have a normal conversation with them. I’m always nervous, or even indirectly looking for signals or something. It’s very uncomfortable for me. Specially to those close my age.
I see my classmates and workmates having no problem, they speak and joke with no problem, but I always am really closed and distant.
I’ve never had a girlfriend or anything. And I’m concerned something might be wrong with me.
It’s been a couple of months and I’m still as distant and closed as day 1.