u/Inner-Extent-

I can’t believe I’m finally admitting how lonely I feel. This past year brought a lot of change, and I lost a relationship and some friendships along the way. I have people around me, but no one I truly feel close to or can rely on. And that leaves this constant, heavy emptiness. I live in a big city where everyone seems to have their own circles and plans, and somehow I’m always on the outside. I don’t have anyone I can really call mine.

I recently went on a date with a woman whose photos were so heavily filtered or edited that the difference in real life was hard to ignore. Not just better lighting or flattering angles, but a noticeable gap.

It put me in an uncomfortable position. On one hand, it felt misleading. On the other, I could sense there was likely insecurity behind it, which made it harder to respond honestly in the moment.

What made it more complicated is that I did feel there might be potential beyond physical attraction, so I didn’t just dismiss it.

Curious how others have handled something like this in a way that feels both honest and respectful.