Can someone tell me how this looks like in a mens POV? im actually curious to see how my date could have possibly felt
i, 20F, met this guy, 25M, at a party. he is the best friend of my friend’s cousin, and we kinda clicked when we first met at a party. we chatted for a time and he invited me to a bakery with my friend’s cousin, by that point i wasn’t sure of my interest but i gave him the chance anyway, to see how things would go
however, my friend spilled the beans and told me that he was just looking for an excuse to go on a date and that he had saved up for weeks for this bakery date. i played dumb as if i didn’t know that it was a date
it was the most uncomfortable thing ever.
he arrived late, it was at 3:00pm and i got there at 3:03 and then he got there at 3:17. we said hi and he bought me an iced tea, we went back to our tables and i just stared at him because i really didn’t know what to say. i imagine i looked VERY uncomfortable because he asked me like “are you uncomfortable?” and i said “yeah”
by this time my friend’s cousin wasn’t there yet, she arrived at 5 in the evening.
throughout the date i would stare at him and wait for him to speak because i couldn’t come up with topics. he also went to the bathroom 3 times and had me waiting 15 minutes each time.
however, i feel like i played part on it. for example, he asked me if i wanted something to eat, he asked twice, i said “no i don’t want to” and when we went to the shopping center i bought myself some cinnabon. while we were at the bakery he offered to walk with me around and i said “no i don’t want to walk with you, our friend is on the way” because she was. perhaps i was too dry?
he also doesn’t have the maturity i would expect for a 25 year old. he is studying photography, i didn’t have the heart to tell him he was lowk going to die of hunger (my dad is a photographer, photography here in my country is NOT doing good as of right now) and i asked him if he was going to get a more stable job as a backup while he did his photo gig
also i know i screwed up because when we were at the shopping center my friend’s cousin and my own friend joined us and when he left to answer a call i couldn’t help but ask my friend and her cousin if he was going bald. i genuinely thought he was because he was missing hair from when i first met him
when the date was over, at 9pm, and i left i didn’t let him hug me, he hesitated so i just said my goodbyes and left.
was i bitchy?