I’ve been talking to this guy all year and the last time I saw he him asked me to be his gf. That’s what makes me the most upset, he started talking to me first, he flew out to see me, he asked me to be his gf without me promoting. And then a week later he’s gone. Even after us talking about moving in together and me meeting his son. It makes me so upset because I liked him a lot and I was hoping he would ask me.
Unfortunately I know no one can tell me the future but idk if I’m over reacting or if it’s normal. My bf and I (both 25) have been together for a few months. It’s normal for either of us to not reply for hours because we work opposite schedules are we’re both very social. But we had a nice phone call 2 nights ago and I texted him good morning and he hasn’t responded.
What trips me out is that this is my first “healthy” relationship in the sense that it has moved slowly but steady, we don’t text and call constantly but we’ve seen each other twice and we call each other a few nights a week. This is also my first LDR and I know he has experience with it from being in the military.
I know he’s busy this weekend but I thought I would hear something from him. I don’t want to come off as insecure or clingy.