u/Impossible-Face-9474

It's us at fault too...

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته

We're seeing rising hate against Muslims in this country and yeah these go0ns gaya us but partly it's our fault too as a community

You see we as muslims have forgotten who we are... most of us do no follow the path of the quran and sunnah, we don't pray, have haram relationships, drink, and many muslim majority areas have high useage of drugs...

Islam gave us honor and allah told us to be the best version of ourselves but what are we doing? Busy criticising everyone else? Muslims are very few in the areas of power... IPS, IAS, how many are muslims? Why are we asking justice from these non muslim rulers who don't give a sh!t about us.... we're just vote banks to them....

No single party cares about us? You think before 2014 we were completely safe? No we weren't....why can't we as myslims give our vote to a muslim leader?

Enough about politics

Whenever something wrong happens to a non Muslim they have their own people coming out on the roads and creating nuisance.... but where are we when something happens to a muslim? I'm not talking about creating scene or doing what they are doing... we can protest or file complaints... as a community we MUST help each other... please let your children study, be financially, spiritually and in every way capable to protect ourselves.... the line 'Allah looks at the heart and not money' is just some lazy saying for the people who don't want to work... look at the juice... they are hardly 5% in the world yet they hold so much power over it... we as muslims are closer to allah and we are a COMMUNITY... we must come out to protect eaxh other and help each other...

We need to uplift ourselves as a community....be the best in every field, doesn't matter what you do. even if you're a mechanic, be the best mechanic, be the best there is so people who really want some work to be done can come to us... give your children education all while being in the boundaries of islam...

We have such a rich history... mughals, house of wisdom in baghdad... we were absolute peak of humanity, and look at us now... an average muslim now knows more biryani shops in his area than mosques... we abandoned prayer, which makes us muslim.... if you ask a random muslim anywhere about the best biryani he'll name to at least 3 shops but if you ask him who laid the foundation of the ka'aba, who parted the red sea, how many prophets are there in islam... now suddenly no answer... why is it? It's the responsibility of tge parents to teach our kids about all this but what do parents do? Compare you to random students about the marks they get... during the tiktok era you may remember that most of them were muslims (faisu, jannat zubair, Danish, etc.) dancing on songs and glorifying haram relationships

Most of our parents were not very much on deen or tried to keep us from going astray, but we can bring a change....

I'm begging you, please teach your kids, if they want to be a footballer let him... not every successful person is a doctor or an engineer... just tell them to be the best in that field they chose.... marry then early so things like zina subside...

Allah will help us if we help ourselves.... he'll help us fight back he won't push us to protect ourselves

I have more things to say but not right now... I'll create more posts like this...

Please I'm not generalising anyone.. I'm stating the truth

We need to take our future seriously or we'll perish ...

ان شاء الله, we can bring back the golden age of islam once again

I'm sorry if it's a little harsh... please don't take it personally, im talking about the community as a whole not single person or area....

Feel free to correct me if you want without being aggressive

THANK YOU FOR READING THIS

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u/Impossible-Face-9474 — 5 days ago

Many women and most 'muslim' household treat men like they're nothing and just a provider.... sons are not taken seriously just because they're struggling or earning less than his competition, men are called failure and judged only on the basis of their income..... if a guy drinks but earns more than the sober guy, he's treated better and with more respect

Even when proposing for a marriage, the only thing the woman Anna her wali looks at is his income, the rest doesn't matter... even if you're the best guy around but unfortunately earning less, you're a nobody... didn't Allah tell to get married and he'll enrish the couple with his bounty?

I've seen women taunting their husbands, parents taunting their sons because they earn less or die to some circumstances lost their jobs.... my mom calls me randomly on how I'm behind her friend's son and how I'm a failure, she even calls me her 'investment' who is supposed to just earn and provide her with luxury.

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u/Impossible-Face-9474 — 15 days ago

As said in the heading....i want to stop this habit but am falling deeper and deeper into this....

I'm a university student and i see too much zina in the open and many of them are muslim students too... I'm having hard time to lower my gaze and stop thinking about how bad i want it

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u/Impossible-Face-9474 — 15 days ago