u/Imjustababiokay

Been seeing eachother for 2.5 months- both 21. Ahout 4 weeks ago I asked him what are we. Even though I didn’t go into it wanting a relationship, I liked him enough to fantasize ahout the idea and want to try and work towards that as a possibility, and would’ve liked being exclusive. He said he likes me but has never been in a relationship and it seems like too much of a commitment for his schedule and he wasn’t sure enough about our connection, saying he thinks im great but we don’t have an “x factor”

We didn’t hang out as much for a bit but I ended up texting him that I was down to keep hanging out because I thoigjt I could try casual- his main draw for me is the physical attraction after all.

But lately I’ve been left confused. The last few weeks it seems he wants to spend almost all his free time with me. Involving me witj his friends and their gfs a lot like double dates.. romantic nights where our convos seem to be getting better. Cuddles where he holds me so tight. And I wonder is he starting to like me more? He told me hes not seeing anyone else so did he even mean it when he says he wants to keep his options open or is he just afraid of commitment and I can be patient ?

I’ve been wanting to be patient tbe last 2 weeks but it also shakes me up this feeling that any day he could sleep with someone else. He said hed tell me and that he hasn’t seen anyone else. Am I just bracing for the day it comes? Am I just being kept around as a placeholder until he finds “better”? What’s so wrong with me thag he doesn’t see any potential in me?

I really want to just not care and enjoy him for what we are but tbh I feel like im cheating a bit when I consider other guys, and question why he wouldnt feel the same a bit. I just find myself thinking about him a lot. When we have a nice time I want to yearn for him without fear.

I want to bring this up to him without coming off as desperate or in love with him. I kind of want the possibility of him realizing what he’s lost witj me and coming back. How can I bring all this up to possibly leverage whatever potential is within him to want exclusivity or anything with me?

Posh app

Telling my situationship im done..?

Shabang tickets through Posh

I keep farting in my sleep next to my situationship..😭