Bf (28m) is buying woman's clothes again behind my (30f) back
I originally had this posted in relationships but was removed because I didn't have a question so posting here instead.
So, I found out a year ago my partner of two years was buying and wearing women's clothes behind my back. But not only that. He was talking to other women in a sissy dom style of relationship.
I was stupid enough to let it go this first time after we had a longggg conversation about it and I thought it was behind us.
But I found a package that was sent from shein to a locker just recently. Then I found the women's knee high boots. He also has lingerie tucked away not knowing that I found it.
I asked him about the shein package and he claims to know nothing about it and tbh I wouldn't have found it had my ferret not been climbing and knocked the box out from wherever it was hidden.
We live together so surely he didn't think I would never find this stuff. Im not at work, have had a shit sleep through the night and my mind will not stop running at a million miles an hour.
What makes this worse is the fact I've been complaining that I have no clothes because we dont have money for me to go buy new things (money is super tight right now with bills and ferrets being clumsy) but he can go buy himself new clothes.
My issue is here that he is spending money that I am working overtime to make while he doesnt work for genuine reasons. But hes telling me we have no money for simple thing but buys stuff behind my back and hides it.
Edit to add, ive just found videos of him and another girl (taking either just before or just after getting with me because of the house in them was his old house.) And hes been sending that plus pictures to dominatrics.
Tl;dr my bf is buying woman's clothes while saying we have no money for me to buy new clothes. And I no longer have any trust in him