u/IllAlwaysAskWhy9999

Image 1 — Super vulnerable post.
Image 2 — Super vulnerable post.

Super vulnerable post.

I’m 45 F and I started Reta alone, no other mega stacks or anything. I started in December and I moved up very slowly. I started at 1, then 2 weeks later went to 2 and stayed there for a month, then did 3 for a month, 4 for this past month and last Friday I did 5. I’m 5’9 and I started at 224. My main want to do this besides wanting to finally like the reflection on the mirror is cause I’m ALWAYS perpetually tired. Even on weekends when I could sleep 10 hours straight I wake up EXHAUSTED. So my mindset was I can lose some weight (a lot of you are motivating btw) and then hopefully I can start working out cause I know I need it. Well fast forward to today and I am weighing 198.3. I see some of you losing like 40 lbs in 3-4 months and I’m over here at like a pound a week.

Do I know that I need to work out and not just depend on this? Yes. Do I also know that I need to have more than 60ish grams of protein a day… also yes. I do make a lot healthier choices for food, my quantity has obviously reduced by a lot. Should I add in some electrolytes ( any recommendations cause I can’t do the Liquid IV) also yes.

To add I had gastric bypass in 2005 and my food consumption is still less than most adults, my issue was quality over quantity. (IE wasn’t great) I also did try for 3-4 weeks a Mot-C peptide and it didn’t do jack.

So before you all yell at me (and I know, I know I deserve it) what can you all suggest to me as if I was your sister. I can take tough love, just don’t talk shit please. I feel like I’m the slowest responder EVER… I don’t know how much more I can afford buying the Reta cause life is lifing lately but my goal is to get down to 180. I did blood work and I’m not even in perimenopause yet, my thyroid is fine, so I can’t even blame it on that. I appreciate you all and all the advice I’ve gotten. Adding 2 pictures from today and from February just in case for some visuals. Gently jumping off my soap box!

u/IllAlwaysAskWhy9999 — 4 days ago
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So should I keep it or ask to exchange it?

My whole life I’ve never been able to ask someone to exchange a gift out of fear of being seen as ungrateful. I absolutely love my BF and today for Mother’s Day (we have no mutual children) he got me a soccer jersey with a specific player on the back. I love the national team but I have never ever owned one with an actual player, they have always been blank. So my problem is as a grown ass woman, I’m embarrassed to ask if we can exchange it for a non player jersey. He has no problems asking to exchange if whatever I get him isn’t what he wants, etc. Would I look ungrateful to him if I did or should I just suck it up and enjoy the fact that I have an authentic jersey for the first time in my life and not a replica like I’ve always had? Thanks!

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u/IllAlwaysAskWhy9999 — 4 days ago

AITA for asking to exchange a gift

Today is Mother’s Day and my BF of 6 years got me an authentic soccer jersey with a specific player on it. I’ve never worn a player on any of my soccer jerseys I’ve always had them blank. My personality is to keep it wear it and love it… because the fact is that it’s not in me to say hey BF can we exchange it because then I would feel y grateful. What do I do? Keep it or say something?

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u/IllAlwaysAskWhy9999 — 4 days ago