"Hi everyone, 19F here. I’m a virgin and planning on having sex for the first time soon with my bf (23M). We’ve been together 4 months. He’s more experienced and quite dominant/touchy. I’m getting my STI tests and looking into BC, but I’m nervous about the actual act. Any tips on positions, managing pain, and making sure he’s satisfied while I stay safe? I really want this to be special. Thanks
"Hi everyone, 19F here. I’m a virgin and planning on having sex for the first time soon with my bf (23M). We’ve been together 4 months. He’s more experienced and quite dominant/touchy. I’m getting my STI tests and looking into BC, but I’m nervous about the actual act. Any tips on positions, managing pain, and making sure he’s satisfied while I stay safe? I really want this to be special. Thanks
I'm 19, he's 23. He ignores me for days, is possessive, avoids serious conversations by being overly affectionate then acts normal quickly. He lectures me on communication but doesn't practice it. I'm stressed and disrespected.
I’m 19 and this is my first relationship. My boyfriend is 23, says he’s dating to marry, but lately his behaviour has me confused.
He ignores me for days at a time. We haven’t spoken properly since Thursday, he went out of town and didn’t come see me like he said, and today is a holiday and he hasn’t texted me at all.
He is very possessive, says he wants to “own” me and gets mad if I speak to other guys.
When I try to tell him I’m upset or vent about his behaviour, the moment he sees me he switches into “baby mode”. He kisses me and repeats sorry loads before I even finish speaking so I can’t explain properly. Then less than an hour later he’s acting normal and sexual again like nothing happened, without even waiting for me to forgive him.
He also lectures me on communication but disappears when he wants to.
I’m stressed, my period is late, and I feel so disrespected. I’ve been so loyal to him but he treats me like an option.