Is this real or am i imagining things ??
21F.So I had a crush on a guy back in 7th grade. He was my classmate till 12th grade. He was very nerdy and introverted back then so was I maybe that's why I had crush on him . Anyways I forgot him and moved one in life. Had a crush in first year of clg didn't tell him didn't work out.Had another crush proposed to him he said no as he was fresh out of a break up which I didn't know . He asked me to find someone else . He kept sending me reels till last month. He used to send many reels at night as he would be awake and i would always wake up to it since 3 months . It would be many funny relatable ones too. Recently he stopped sending me reels and i should initiate things like reels or texts and he seems distant. He is working on something but things do feel distant . I feel he used my attention to get over his breakup . Though we didn't talk everyday but that reels thing was real and so were his replies.
Now coming to my old crush 7 th grade one i noticed something similar among us. Both of us like similar emotional and character based reels. Almost all the reels he has reposted i relate hard with it . All of them are related to friendship character being alone and enjoying ur company and many such things.One reel was like what u bring to the table and it was like post conversion autopsy and stuff that way basically a overthinking style of person 😭😭 which I'm too .Our music taste seem to match too. I know a common friend should i approach him???( Friendship sense) Also he isn't performative or anything as much as I have seen him